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Violet King


Page 18 The answers lie with you!……….


Are you constantly asking people’s advice…. wanting to know how you should handle things? Lacking in confidence, and afraid to take any form of risk in life?


Many of us seek the answers to life’s questions by looking outside of ourselves and trying to glean advice from the people around us. If you think about it though, as each of us is unique, with our own personal histories, our own sense of right and wrong, and our own way of experiencing the world that defines our realities, looking to others for our answers is only partially helpful. … and it’s not the answer!!


The answers to our personal questions can be most often found by looking within. If we are honest, we all know what we want from life, but sometimes changes have to be made first before achievement starts.


Trusting your inner wisdom may be awkward at first, particularly if you grew up around people who taught you to look to others for answers.


As adults only you can know the how’s and why’s of your life. The answers that you seek can be found when you start answering your own questions.


Only you can achieve what you really truly want in life too. It all depends on what you’re aiming for…. the good things, or the things that won’t do us any favours! …


If I ever find myself in a situation where I really don’t know what is the best thing to do, I literally reason with myself, out loud, and ask myself direct questions. It’s amazing where the answers come from when you think you don’t know what to do for the best in a situation! Actually putting it all in words seems to have a very positive effect!…. No doubt people could think I was mad if they were to hear me, but I make sure they don’t!


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Quite often when talking to friends or those we know love us, we may put a slant on things, or hold back from being entirely truthful…… you don’t have to do that when you are being honest with yourself … or talking to someone you need never see again! It can help to talk!... Sometimes just getting things out in the open helps.


‘til the next time….Take care!


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