Female Focus
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Your Community Magazine! The Power Within……. do you understand it?
No matter what situation you are in right now, the chances are that you have the power to make changes, and benefit from those changes. No one else is in control of your life but you, and that is what some of us don’t realise. Even if we are living in a controlled environment and we cannot change the physical life we lead, we can change our way of looking at things.
Why would you get angry with someone you don’t like? Why would you allow THEM to control you? That is what you are doing. No one can MAKE us angry, bitter, resentful….. we make the choice to allow those emotions to surface, and why would we do that if we want to stay in control of a situation.
Saying “I am getting angry now” is very different from saying “You make me so mad!” The first statement means that you are in control, the second means that you are allowing someone else to control YOU.
People are beaten up, abused, insulted, deprived in relationships and when asked why they are in those relationships the common almost guaranteed reply is “Because I love him/ her”…….what on earth can there be to love about someone who treats you badly?
The answer is that so few people have self esteem today, so few people like themselves in an upbuilding way. One of the Golden Rules is “Love your neighbour AS YOURSELF” ……so what is wrong with deciding what sort of person you admire and would like to be, and making the changes to achieve that?
We never stop learning, and as I was taught to see things differently and handle things differently, I am sure that there are people who are reading this who could do with that kind of tuition. I have run successful self improvement groups before and they worked very well.
Seeing things differently makes all the difference, and it makes you realise and appreciate the power that we all have within us!
Take care, until the next time! Violet King…. Personal Confidential Counsellor.
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