SIMPLE STEPS REAL CHANGE MAGAZINE
When I stopped caring what other people thought, and just cared about how I felt, my world began to shift.
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With all you were going through, when did you realize you had to take a new approach to your life?
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One day I realized I had spent my entire day, morning, noon and night…afraid. I was afraid of the future. I was afraid they would repossess my car, my house, my clothing! I was afraid I would end up homeless—on the street, with a shopping cart filled with all my earthly possessions. And the worst of it all wasn’t even that I could be destitute…it was the fear. I hated being constantly afraid. It just felt so horrible to never be happy.
I decided, “Screw the fear!” I couldn’t possibly feel any worse than I had been up until that point. And the constant fear and worry wasn’t helping my life one iota. I made the choice then and there to be happy first—and to forget the fear because a) it wasn’t serving me and b) it felt horrible!
That choice “reset” my emotions and allowed me to create from a neutral position again.
first” allowed me to create my days unencumbered by the fear, which allowed my choices to begin to manifest.
Choosing “happy
From that point on, I spent just five or ten minutes each day deciding how I wanted my day to feel…by instructing my unseen friends and feelings that way so they knew what I meant.
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morning, and within a few months I was offered raise! That raise was turned down by corporate…because, get this…I was too valuable to receive such a small raise, they wanted me to receive more!
I’m tellin’ you, this stuff works!!
Within a few more months, the president of the company I worked for offered me a job as a VP of a startup. And then the startup was handed over to me! I was the president of my own company... less than three years from my lowest low. That company cost me $50 to incorporate. And within six years I grew it into to a $5 million company.
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You wrote “The Map To Our Responsive Universe - Where Dreams Really Do Come True” as a step-by-step guide on how to create our dreams whether we know what we want or not. Isn’t it important that we know what we want if we’re going to create it?
Actually, it’s better if you don’t know precisely what you want when you want to create something. Because if you get caught up in the “form” something takes, in what something “should” look like, you shut down thousands of ways that something could come to you faster, easier, and more elegantly than had you not had any idea of what it might look like in the first place.
What you do need to know, in order to create wonderful realities, is how you want to feel in that area of your life. So if you want more money, instead of trying
Within weeks my life began to change…first I was offered a great job, which I turned down (without falling into fear). I was then made the offer again, on my terms, and I took it! I kept “ordering up my day” for a few minutes every
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