Violet King
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Who really is in control of you?
Remember…. No One Can Keep You Down But Yourself.
Many times the problems we face in life are because we are handling things in a way that makes no sense……. As adults, surely there comes a time when we can intelligently assess our lives, decide where we want to go and how we want to handle things? Have you ever felt that sometimes you are your own worst enemy?
Can we be digging our own holes and then falling into them? We all have moments when, no matter how hard we try, things just don’t seem to work out right, but it may be better to realise and accept that when everything goes wrong, we have no one to blame but ourselves.
There is an upside to all of this though because, just as you may sometimes be your own worst enemy, you can also be your own best friend! Realisation of this usually occurs when we are ready to accept that the only person on earth who can determine your failure or success is you yourself.
Are you happy to accept the amount of
responsibility? When you sum yourself up honestly, you can begin to build upon your strengths and compensate for your weaknesses. When you do, you will realise that the only person who stands in the way of your success is YOU!….It’s true!.
Sometimes we just need a little help to see things and handle things differently. I remember a time when I needed that help and accepted it….what a learning curve!
I hope that thinking differently about this might help. Everything starts in the mind, then we act, then we get different results! Try it and see!
Until the next time! Take care! Violet King…. Personal Counsellor.
Female Focus
Help International, Benidorm will be resuming weekly meetings at the Jose Lorca Llinares Social Centre, Benidorm as from Thursday 15th September 2011.
New Members are most welcome to join us, come along for a coffee around 10.15 am. For more information see
www.help-benidorm.com
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