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Page 18 Ambience Therapies… Alexis Mother Love. Personal Confidential Counsellor…Reiki Master/Teacher.
“You Don’t Love Me!” Have your children ever tried that one on you? And how many times have you, as a parent resisted the urge to tell them. ‘How Much’?
When my son was born I can still remember that moment when he took my finger and held it tight in his tiny hand. If the reader has children you will have a good idea of my feelings at that time. A man now! I am proud of what my son has become. But he was not always ‘sweetness and light’. We had our difficult times together in his teens.
For several years there was just the two of us and there came a time when he began to challenge. We struggled for a few years. He once said, “I Hate You” when I refused to let him do what he wanted. There were times when I disliked him! There were times when I just did not know what to do! When I read this poem I decided to keep it. Perhaps, intending to show it to him one day when he was old enough to understand the logic that motivates a mother. But I never have. He is an independent adult now and he knows just how much ‘I love him’.
Please read my poem. What do you think? Some day this is what I’ll tell my Son
I loved you enough to irritate you by asking where you were going, with whom, and what time you would be home. I loved you enough to be silent and let you discover your hand picked friend was a creep. I loved you enough to make you return a bar of chocolate with a bite out of it to a shop and confess, “I stole this”. I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your bedroom, a job that would have taken me 15 minutes. I loved you enough ‘not’ to make excuses for your lack of respect or your bad manners.
I loved you enough to ignore “what every other mother” did. I loved you enough to realise that you would lie about a party being chaperoned but forgive you for it... after I discovered that I was right. I loved you enough to let you stumble, fall and fail so that you could learn to ‘stand alone’.
I loved you enough to accept you for what you are, not what I wanted you to be. But most of all, I loved you enough to say ‘No’ when you hated me for it. “That was the hardest part of all.”
I steered him through those teenage years. He made it safely! He pointed me in the direction of Reiki, changing my life for the better. “Forever”.
“But that is another story!”
For more information about Reiki or Personal Counselling issues contact: Alex: 96 649 7796 Mobile: 652 517 949.
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