Home, Life & Horoscopes A Win/Win Resolution Strategy
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“This will be fine” or “This will work well for both of us.” Focus your motivation. How will you feel when things go well? How will future inter- actions play out if this one is successful? How will others benefit?
Clarify your posi-
tive values about yourself, your partner and the situation. Create mental pictures of negotiations and mediations which have gone well in the past. Develop a set of positive affirmations: “I will be friends with this person when this negotiation is complete.”
Use your senses
Remain wholly in your body as your work toward resolu- tion. Keep all your senses on alert, especially you intuition and other senses which seem most available and easiest to recall. Note the words the other person uses and you will discover how they access their senses: “I see what you’re saying” or “That doesn’t sound right” or “That smells fishy” or “That tastes sweet.”
Associate
Associate what is going on right now to something posi- tive and pleasant in the past. Associate with your own posi- tive feelings and dreams, with the aspirations of the partner. Make connections to music, language, visual space, nature, spirit, logic, your body and pleasant instances of creativ- ity in your past. You will be amazed at the volumes of options you can develop by associating what is going on now with positive associations in the past.
Use various cognitive patterns As the negotiation proceeds, bounce around positive ways to prove what is being pre- sented. Analyze and syn- thesize ideas and proposals. Imagine ways into the positive future and plan to use tomor- row everything you are learn- ing today.
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Who or what have you been dreaming about that you would like to be more a part of your life? This month you are entering a phase of bringing that person or thing into greater reach as well as focus for the next several months. You have lots of energy and it would be serve you to use rather than store it now. If ideas and solutions come to you follow them and see what comes. There may also be focus on money management or taking a new job.
Taurus (4/21 - 5/20)
The Full Moon in your sign this month may help to clarify many of the burning questions you have had over the past few weeks, and to help either heal or bring completion to certain close relation- ships. As stressful as the autumn season may have been for you so far, it is due to lighten up by the middle of November. Now you can laugh, kick up your heels, celebrate your victories, and then get ready for the next round of adventures.
Gemini (5/21 - 6/20)
Moving into the holidays your focus is largely upon serious matters, projects in culmination and preparations for the year ahead. It may be that you are also making or considering some large invest- ment or planning a trip with a partner. It might not be a peaches and cream kind of month but it could be the kind you will feel afterward has been quite productive. Be gentle with yourself even as you work hard on reaching goals.
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Cancer (6/21 - 7/22)
Beginning this month an interesting phase will begin for you that will last for about four months, heightening experi- ences within your personal relationships in prominence, whether they are romantic or not. Many of these relationships will have the feel of stemming from a past life, which they may indeed. It is time to sort out which relationships you would like to continue, to begin anew, to bring to a conclusion, and how.
Leo (7/23 - 8/22)
One of the main highlights of your holiday season will be finally making a change, pursuing a dream that you have not yet allowed yourself to. Some of this began to resurface during October but now you have the platform on which to actualize it. Do not be discouraged over minor annoyances in the early month, as you could easily blow fears out of proportion. Remember your greatness and stand for what you believe in!
Virgo (8/23 - 9/22)
This month may be as sweet and spicy for you as your favorite holiday dessert. Start collecting images and affirmations of what you love, enjoy, and desire to experience in your life. This is one of those special occasions you’ll be a roll, have the Midas’ touch, and if not in love with someone else, in love with your own life! If you’re not having fun yet, check in with yourself to see how you might allow for more of the good stuff to flow.
Libra (9/23 - 10/22)
A paradox continues for you in that you may find a part of yourself retreating inward while another part is extending outward. Whatever the case may be, you are likely to achieve some social promi- nence in your work or within the field of the arts. If family members get on your nerves just remember the good times and qualities that you find endearing about them. Above all, and in general, look for the simple solutions now!
Scorpio (10/23 - 11/22)
The Solar Eclipse in your sign early month stirs a great deal of energy with in your heart, life, and subconscious. Many old feelings are resurfacing to be healed and released so that you can rise to a higher level, as does the phoenix rising from the ashes. Do not cling to your old stories, but be willing to write new scripts and experience new wonders. Later month finds you climbing the ladder to success in your chosen field. It is worth the effort!
Sagittarius (11/23 - 12/21)
Early this month you might feel frustrated or misunderstood but don’t let that keep you down. Something is just unraveling like a long piece of silk that will be prettier to look at once it’s smoothed out. Step by step, day by day, you will notice improve- ments. This is a month you could make investments as well as receive financial boosts. Take as much time and space as you need in order to make the best deci- sions, to feel rested and inspired.
Capricorn (12/22 - 1/19)
Beginning now the next few months are looking very sentimental, deeply emo- tional, and possibly quite powerful for you on many levels. Relationships are the highlight and topic of interest or exami- nation for you, whether or not you are involved in a marriage or partnership. You will probably not want to be as alone as usual during this time, as it is important to engage with others and resolve any issues between you. It could even be fun!
Aquarius (1/20 - 2/18)
So the holidays are here and maybe you’re not done with your stack of paper work? If you feel like you’re stuck in a lab with a thinking cap on while the world is frolicking and having fun without you, do not fret – your time will come! Early month you’re just tying up loose ends and tidying things up so that you can truly relax during your next vacation. Later month you will see the results of the work you’ve put in, bringing you greater confidence!
Pisces (2/19 - 3/20)
Are you ready for this? Synchronicities are flying by faster than you can count, but count them you almost certainly will, for they are the flowering results of your previous efforts toward greater harmony and perhaps enlightenment. At the same time, certain people or things are press- ing your buttons that both agitate and excite you to act in new, liberating ways. You’re connecting with the inner magi- cian, as you explore the world with new eyes.
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