Violet King
Page 20 loved one... By Violet King
So many of us have lost loved ones from our lives, and it seems to be the most diffi cult thing to deal with, even though it’s ongoing we never get used to it, and it makes no sense that life should be like this.
As with every problem in life, there is a way to deal with this kind of loss, but do you want to apply the remedy?..., It’s your choice.
There are many ways of building yourself up and learning to appreciate the life that lies ahead of you, but maybe not everyone will be comfortable to make a difference. In the beginning, the loss will be very hard to get used to, the space in your life won’t be appreciated and you will feel totally shipwrecked............ When you are ready, and only you will know when that is, focus on the happy times you had together, think of the changes in your life because of the other person.......... concentrate on all the good things about having had the person in your life, and try being the kind of person your loved one would be proud of. Life can never take away the memories and the good experiences, and some people never have those to remember.
The most important thing to do is to see the situation as it really is, and then you will be able to move on....... Is there anything you can do about your loss? The answer is a resounding NO! Well then, when you are prepared to admit that, only YOU can switch your negative thoughts to positive ones, and only YOU can switch off all the pain you are subjecting yourself to.
Whatever you believe in for the future, TODAY is in your hands, and with balance, it can be as good and as happy as you decide to make
it...........it’s up to you.
When we lose a
Female Focus
One night President Obama and his wife Michelle decided to do something out of routine and go for a casual dinner at a restaurant that wasn’t too luxurious. When they were seated, the owner of the restaurant asked the President’s secret service if he could please speak to the First Lady in private. They obliged and following the conversation President Obama asked Michelle “Why was he interested in talking to you?” She mentioned that in her teenage years, he had been madly in love with her. President Obama then said, “So if you had married him, you would now be the owner of this lovely restaurant”, to which Michelle responded, “No, if I had married him, he would now be President”. Go Girl!
Behind every great man...
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