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Pierce” remake. She’s the emphy- semic mother of an Iraq war vet- eran in the upcoming “The Dry Land,” which she accompanied to town a few days ago to show sena- tors and military officials, includ- ing the Army chief of staff, Gen. George Casey. Is she nervous about watching this anguished, depressing movie with the people who are kinda- sorta responsible for the trauma depicted in it? She downshifts from brassy to

tender. “The message of the movie to those extraordinary,

bright,

strong, brave youth is that Mother loves you,” she says. “And that’s a message we need to hear, that somehow — in spite of whatever we’ve been asked to do or have done — we can still be loved.” Love, in Leo’s life, has been tough. Her childhood in the East Village was interrupted by her parents’ divorce, which sent her ricocheting from Vermont to Eng- land with her mother. She went to theater school in London during her teens, got her GED stateside, then “wasted a bit of time in Tul- sa.”

ILLUSTRATIONS BY PATTERSON CLARK/THE WASHINGTON POST

Melissa Leo: ‘I scare people on some level’

A gritty actress finds acclaim but still looks for a leading man

by Dan Zak

The itty-bitty star inked on Me-

lissa Leo’s right wrist came from a late-night trip to a tattoo parlor in Baltimore in the mid-1990s, back when she was living in Fells Point and playing gruff-’n’-tough Sgt. Kay Howard on “Homicide: Life on the Street.” There are 11 more stars tattooed around her body, so that if she strips naked and raises her arms and stretches to the left, she approximates the constella- tion Virgo. She’ll be 50 in September and

has groomed herself into a flinty earth mother onscreen and off — the kind who smuggles foreigners across the Canadian border so she can afford a new trailer for her family (as in 2008’s “Frozen Riv- er”), or the kind who kicks a ciga- rette to the curb on 16th Street NW, hitches a zebra-print bag up her shoulder and slides into a booth at Nage on Scott Circle, ready to offer some tart words about the Jeff Bridges movie she turned down in the wake of her Oscar nomination last year for “Frozen River.” She could’ve played one of the

two middle-age women bedded by Bridges in “Crazy Heart,” about a boozy, over-the-hill country singer in love with a much younger Mag- gie Gyllenhaal. “They wanted me for one or the

other,” Leo says. “And then he ends up with who? And that’s right? She’s young enough to be his daughter. That made me wanna barf.” She’ll have the slow-baked salmon, please, well done.

Beggars can’t be choosers, and

Melissa Leo has been a beggar for most of her quiet career. She al- most always says yes. Since “Fro- zen River” goosed her career, say- ing yes has been a lot more fun. She’s a dogged lawyer in the HBO series “Treme,” the sprawling post- Katrina moodpiece that airs on Sundays and reunites her with a dozen of her “Homicide” compa- triots. She’s sashaying up and down Manhattan with Kate Wins- let for Todd Haynes’s “Mildred

Now what does that mean? “Nothing that you want to write about in the newspaper,” she says coyly, back to brassy, herding len- tils on her plate. C’mon. “Nuh-uh. It’s all been expunged

by now.” After a taste of higher educa- tion at SUNY-Purchase, she dropped out, nannied on the Up- per West Side, walked on stilts in Midtown with a Dixieland jazz band and waitressed. While on a break from a shift, she auditioned opposite Bill Murray for “The Ra- zor’s Edge.” Murray arrived very late, fresh off the golf course, she says, and unwittingly dispensed advice that propelled her into a full-blown career. “He said, ‘You’re much too young for this part, but if you real- ly want to do this, you should just do it,’ ” Leo recalls. “He seemed, in the moment, to be saying I had something, and I should do some- thing about it. I felt he was giving me a gift. Whether he was or not, I have no idea. But I quit work that afternoon and said, ‘I will now only take work as an actor.’ ” The work came: a part on “All My Children,” a long purgatory of

“Depends on who’s opposite.” Who’s your ideal leading man? “Well, because I missed work- ing with him, I’d say Je — ” She catches herself before finishing the name Jeff, tugs on her fingers, fidgets. Maybe she’s mouthed off enough. “I dunno,” she says. “That’s too hard to say.” C’mon. “No, there’s too many delicious,

juicy ones. And what I do — it’s sort of a mind game with myself — is to not have favorites, or ideals. Then you can more easily take what comes along.” The check arrives. Leo requests

a box for her leftover salmon. “You haven’t asked me if I’m

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bit TV roles (“Miami Vice,” “Spen- ser: For Hire”), a good run on “Homicide,” supporting parts in films and a rough road at home. She spent most of the ’90s in a painful, bitter custody battle with actor John Heard, with whom she had a son in 1987. And finally came Ray Eddy, the steely single mother in “Frozen River” who ushered her to the Os- cars nearly 25 years after Bill Mur- ray told her to go for it. “There was nothing that was

going to deter me from it,” she says of acting. “Now I get this gratitude coming from very fine actors I know who cannot get hired. They thank me for staying in there and proving to them that if they just stick with it, that’s all it might take.”

So, Iraq. Katrina. Illegal immi-

gration. One might conclude that she’s drawn to American crisis. “It’s drawn to me,” Leo says.

“They’re not going to come to me with a romantic comedy. If they do, we’ll have a happy celebra- tion.”

So you’d do a romantic comedy?

single,” she says with a faint whiff of flirt. Both her chocolate eyes and her tiny nose piercing twin- kle.

Are you? “Yes, I’m single.” Happily single? “I feel lonely sometimes. I don’t know what to do about it. So I thought I’d tell you and you could put it in the newspaper. My friends tell me I have to throw it out there. I’ve never been married. My son is a bastard. A darling bas- tard. And then I did try for a long time, for 10 years, with a relation- ship that had its ups and downs and then ended. I’ve dated a little bit and so on.” She’s getting giggly, biting her lower lip, sitting on her hands, hunching and unhunching her shoulders like a schoolgirl up to no good. “It’s not my schedule that’s

hard,” she says. “First of all, I have never been asked out. I have nev- er. Been. Asked. Out. There’s something — I scare people on some level. I think it’s my red hair. I think, in the end, it might be as simple as that.” Don’t be ridiculous. “I don’t think I would be very easy to have a relationship with. I don’t need to be taken care of in the ways women are used to being taken care of. It would take an in- ventive liaison. Or maybe this is just how it’s meant to be, and that’s that. It’s clear how much I love my work, right?” It is.

She looks away, tosses her hand

— her tattoo briefly becoming a shooting star — and says, “Well, maybe that’s all, then.”

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