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here once was a talented young girl who lived for her music, with many dreams and aspirations. She sang and danced before many audiences.
She was tormented by a teacher for day-dreaming. At age 7 he threw a ball at her that broke her finger, shouting “Next time you day dream that ball will be thrown harder, do you understand?” She didn’t understand but nodded. When she got married years later in Kenya, she was given false promises and hopes. But she was mentally and emotionally abused, tormented and raped… for 15 years she continued in that life, feeling that she must deserve it and unable to ask for help.
The day she became a mother was the happiest of her life. She loved and nurtured her son, devoting her life to him day and night. She felt bliss because it seemed her beautiful child, his golden hair, big eyes, rosy red lips, and a smile of an angel had healed her. Little did she know that as he grew, he was constantly fed negatives about his Maa. Confused,
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he would often tell her to “Shut up!”, knowing only that this pleased his grandmother and father.
Then the abuse extended to her son. Unable to tolerate this injustice, through many a drama, she escaped from Kenya with him... only to be taken to court for Abduction. The court ruled in her favour but her estranged husband was granted the right to take her 5-year-old back to Kenya… without her knowledge. That was 15 years ago. And that woman is ME. Imagine the inner tug of war, the Emotions, the Energy, and the Ego. These three E’s get locked inside the person and the pattern resurfaces as it looks for a way out. The cycle may repeat as the energy gets locked in the Mind, Body and Soul. The story becomes so strong inside that the person becomes the story and they forget who they truly are and the pattern then repeats… until someone one day says “STOP! THIS IS NOT HOW MY LIFE IS GOING TO BE!!!”
Imagine a world of meaning, of awakening, to empower people to grow from within, to blossom to their
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