Violet King
Page 20
Hello, and who are you?…
I guess we might be shocked or puzzled if someone said “I’m a very lonely person, trying to fi nd good relationships with someone I care a lot about”. Why is this?
Because in life many of us lose our identity and just concentrate on the role we play as husband, wife, daughter, son etc. This is fi ne, but it is not WHO we are, and ignoring our inner self is what causes some people a lot of problems and stress.
A while ago I was talking to an 11 year old who was very diffi cult and causing family problems. I asked her who she was, and she immediately gave me her name. I said “No, not what are you called, but who are you?”… she looked at me long and hard and then said “I am a pest, I drive everyone mad, I cause trouble in the family… etc.” You see, she knew who she was! She was fi nally able to see who she COULD be, if she wanted.
The past has happened to us all…. but the past is a tutor, not a companion. So many of us carry it round on a daily basis tormenting ourselves with thoughts that pull us down. No wonder things go wrong, no wonder you feel down and you’re not getting the best out of life.
“Yesterday is history, Tomorrow’s a mystery, Today is a GIFT, which is why it’s called The Present”…. Use this gift to shape your tomorrows, use it to bring happiness to yourself, and then watch the change you will experience from others.
Take control TODAY, be the best you can, why settle for less? Aim for the best qualities, and in a short while you will look at yourself differently. So will everyone else!
‘til the next time! Violet King,Personal Counsellor.
NEW FEATURE!! Female Focus
Monthly Madness!! See pages 34 & 35
Female Focus
Page 1 |
Page 2 |
Page 3 |
Page 4 |
Page 5 |
Page 6 |
Page 7 |
Page 8 |
Page 9 |
Page 10 |
Page 11 |
Page 12 |
Page 13 |
Page 14 |
Page 15 |
Page 16 |
Page 17 |
Page 18 |
Page 19 |
Page 20 |
Page 21 |
Page 22 |
Page 23 |
Page 24 |
Page 25 |
Page 26 |
Page 27 |
Page 28 |
Page 29 |
Page 30 |
Page 31 |
Page 32 |
Page 33 |
Page 34 |
Page 35 |
Page 36 |
Page 37 |
Page 38 |
Page 39 |
Page 40 |
Page 41 |
Page 42 |
Page 43 |
Page 44 |
Page 45 |
Page 46 |
Page 47 |
Page 48 |
Page 49 |
Page 50 |
Page 51 |
Page 52 |
Page 53 |
Page 54 |
Page 55 |
Page 56 |
Page 57 |
Page 58 |
Page 59 |
Page 60