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the relationship that in her mind was not in line with what she, at first had hoped for. However, we can also use them as
an example of how to ensure that their was an amicable ending and a quick divorce settlement. The key thing here that made it possible was that they put their daughter first. Which so many parents going through divorce want but who struggle to create this out- come for themselves. As the emotions rise, intelligence dips so that revenge, anger and meanness take its place. So what can you do if you find yourself in a similar situation where you both have radically different spiri- tual/religious beliefs or beliefs about the same thing? And furthermore how can you keep the emotions down so that you can put the children first?
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See beliefs as being just that. Beliefs are just beliefs, there is no
right or wrong here. You can just see them as a different perspective. And why should they be wrong if they are just wrong?
Respect the other persons point of view, just because they have
a different way of viewing the world, doesn’t make them wrong.
If you can, open up a discussion as to what is most important to
the children.
As for the latter question. Its really down to creating a strategy to work towards putting the children first and what the means for both parents. You can work towards this but you have to
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keep an open mind and know that this is for the purpose of your children.
Make sure you put a plan of ac- tion together as to how you want to work towards that common goal.
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Make sure you stick to it, and if you don’t manage to, have a strat-
egy in place as to what you will do and how you will both handle it. Creating a framework of how you
are both going to deal with difficult situations is key to overcoming the challenges in any relationship. So go ahead and give it a go.
My guess would be Katie Hol- mes finally realized she was unhappy and that those feelings of being trapped in a miserable marriage werent going away. Once you have those thoughts, it is hard to get over them or move past because they dont go away. Michael. Washington DC
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People give up too quickly, rather than really try and make it work. Sad :(
Lana
Brainstorm as to what it means to you to put the children first. What
would putting the children first look like for you? See what that would like for your ex too.
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