Female Focus
Violet King Page 22
Know yourself well
It doesn’t matter where we came from…. it only matters where we go
and where we end up!!!
We can choose 24/7 whether or not to be a good person or a bad person.
There are choices and actions that lead us in different directions, and it is
through those choices and actions that we create our realities and where
we are today. Accept that responsibility, so many don’t.
Sometimes we choose or do something This kind of discipline is fine if you are a No one is perfect, we all have flaws. Our
that takes us in the opposite direction of child, but as an adult we have the ability tolerance of those flaws is down to us,
the life we want to create for ourselves. to find our own moral centre and to trust and we are the ones who pay the price,
When we do this, we feel bad - uneasy, and be guided by our own conscience in relationships and feeling good about
unhappy, unsure. We might go so far as and how that has been trained. ourselves.
to label ourselves “bad” when a situation
It is sometimes uncomfortable accepting
Think about things more. Know that you
like this arises. We have a decision to
the fact that we are where we are today
are simply you and take control to make
make, are we going to learn from that bad
because of choices we have made, but it
the kind of adjustments you would like
choice we made, or are we going to keep
is true, not just where we are physically
to see. Become the kind of person you
doing it? The result is in our hands.
but mentally and emotionally too. Think
would have respect for and want to be
about it. So many people have never
with. Food for thought?
When we make an error of choice we need
considered that before.
to put things right, and forgive ourselves One of the tests is to ask yourself; if I
and prepare for our next opportunity to You are a human being with every right wasn’t ME would I like myself as a
choose and act in ways that support our to be here, learning and exploring. To label friend? The answer should say it all!!
best intentions. yourself good or bad is to think too
Take care
small. What you are is a decision-maker
until the next time
Many of us experienced childhoods in and every moment provides you the
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as weapons to control us - you were good being the kind of person you can be
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