Sandler, we recognize failure as a positive experience that gives us freedom to try new things, to be creative, and to move beyond our comfort zone.”


The ability to learn from failure is what allows you to move forward and grow


When I asked Rich about how he


helps people move from a mindset of feel- ing like a failure to accepting failure for success, he replied with the following thoughts. “Accepting this concept intel- lectually is easy. However, dealing with failure emotionally is quite difficult. The ability to positively deal with failure re- quires the ability to separate your role performance from your self-esteem and your self-worth. People with a healthy self-esteem are able to more easily grow as a result of failure. If dealing with failure is difficult for a person, we typically work to bolster self-esteem. That process takes work but is certainly manageable.” Incredible perspective from Rich –


wise, very wise. His Sandler Training philosophy is spot on.


Becky Sansbury is a former chaplain and has an amazingly calm-yet-enthusias- tic persona. She is an expert in adapting to crisis situations and finding resiliency


My friend Steve Hand coordinates all


the Business Network International (BNI) chapters. When it comes to business net- working, Steve is a guru. When I asked Steve for feedback about his perspective on bouncing back from failure, he shared several quotes that he lives by and believes in:


“Anyone who has never made a mis- take has never tried anything new.” ~ Albert Einstein


“Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.” ~ Oscar Wilde


I cannot agree more with my friends


“Failure is a detour, not a dead-end street.” ~ Zig Ziglar


“I’d rather be a failure at something I love than a success at something I hate.” ~ George Burns


who have shared their thoughtful perspec- tives on how essential failure actually is to the success equation. I know that sounds odd, but failure is simply part of life in many ways. Unfortunately, many people never pursue their innermost desires or achieve their full potential because they


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during times of significant trauma. Becky shared the following thought with me, “Did you ever notice how shocked we are when we fail at something, as if perfection should be our assumed constant level of achievement? That belief makes us brittle, breakable, and more likely to fail. Recog- nizing temporary failure as a natural pos- sibility on the continuum of success makes us flexible, resilient, and more likely to succeed. Ironic, isn’t it?


“One of the secrets of life is to make stepping stones out of stumbling blocks.” ~ Jack Penn


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