for Soldiers founder Tyler Steinhardt said. “It wasn’t some big deal that all of sudden he was in net. He was pitching a shutout. … They were running up the field and getting shots on net, and Ben was making saves. It was incredible.” With every save, a roar came from the sidelines.
“Did you see how many kick saves I made?” Harrow asked Steinhardt, who was watching incredulously. As soon as the final whistle blew, Harrow’s teammates, including former Army teammate Erik Mineo, rushed onto the field to congratulate him. It was a moment years in the making, but one that no one doubted would come. Harrow had been preparing to take his life back since May 15, 2012, when he lost both legs after stepping on a pressure-plate improvised explosive device while deployed in Afghanistan. It took multiple surgeries and extensive rehabilitation, but Harrow wanted to walk and, in some fashion, play lacrosse once again.
That came to fruition at the Shootout for Soldiers event. “For me, it’s almost like closure,” Harrow said. “It wasn’t trying to reopen something like my lacrosse career. If anything, it was adding a good exclamation point to it, where I was able to step onto the field one more time with my friends and play lacrosse, the game that meant so much to me.” Harrow’s relationship with lacrosse began on Long Island, where he began playing in seventh grade. His love for the game only grew when he starred at attack at Woodbury Forest School (Va.) and got multiple college offers, settling on Army to be part of “something bigger than” himself.
He moved from attack to midfield his freshman year, and then from midfield to defensive midfield in his junior year. He tried to get better even when he wasn’t required.
“Even on that one day [practice was cancelled], because it was snowing so bad or whatever, and even though we were right over the Hudson River with no wind block between us, Ben would still go out and find some way to improve himself and stay sharp,” said Matt Ellement, Harrow’s former Army teammate.
Just months after graduating from West Point, Harrow, along with teammates like Ellement and Chris Couch, headed to infantry training in Fort Hood, Texas. In 2006, Harrow and Couch were sent to Iraq on a 15-month mission. “You practice it and rehearse it, but once you get into the flow of
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things, it’s adrenaline pumping and it is a little bit chaotic,” Harrow said, likening the experience to lacrosse. “I remember playing a lot of bigger games with bigger crowds and that same adrenaline pumping, that same pressure that you feel is very similar to combat.”
Harrow came back from his first deployment a captain, and was next sent to the Uruzgan Province in Afghanistan, where he led a team of Green Berets against the Taliban until returning to be with his wife, Gina, for the birth of his first child, Peyton, in 2011.
But just a year later, Harrow was summoned for duty a third time — this time in the Kandahar Province in the Panjawai district of Afghanistan. Five months into the deployment, Harrow was working a routine mission with Afghan security forces. He walked into a doorway, took a step and felt the brunt of the biggest blow he’d ever experienced.
He had stepped on a 10-pound pressure-plate IED and flew several feet in the air before realizing what had happened. Harrow lost both of his legs above the knee, two fingers and damaged a portion of his right forearm in the blast. He slowly lost consciousness, but thought of his family to keep him awake.
“It was a picture that I had back in my hut, back in the fire base, of my wife and my son,” he said. “I felt like I was sitting in the picture and I just didn’t want to die. Whatever was trying to take me, I just refused to go.” Amid the chaos, Harrow drifted. “Sorry Gina,” he said to himself as his eyes shut.
Harrow flew to Landstuhl Regional Medical Center in Germany, and once he was stable, he headed to Walter Reed Medical Center in Bethesda, Md. There, doctors told him he would be discharged in 4-6 months. He stopped taking pain medications early on and rolled out in a wheelchair in just two months. But his femur was too short to fit prosthetic limbs.
“I wanted to find the solution,” Harrow said. “They gave me the, ‘At least you’re alive and you’ll be in a wheelchair. This is life.’ I told them I was a collegiate athlete and a Green Beret. I get that the wheelchair is going to be part of my life, but I want to be up and walking.”
While researching how he could fix his femur, Harrow stumbled upon a procedure used on models in China where doctors broke shinbones to have them grow back. It was farfetched,
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“IT WAS A PICTURE THAT I HAD OF MY WIFE AND MY SON. I FELT LIKE I WAS SITTING IN THE PICTURE AND I JUST DIDN’T WANT TO DIE. WHATEVER WAS TRYING TO TAKE ME, I JUST REFUSED TO GO.”
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