Dear Debbie,
My mother has become quite forgetful recently. I work long hours and cannot manage to get down there every day. The situation is not critical at the moment but I fear she will need help in the very near future. However, she is resistant to receiving care. She is fiercely independent and feels she can manage on her own. What do you suggest? Yours sincerely,
Peter Hi Peter,
Most of us go through life completely independent and take for granted what we can manage on a daily basis. Unfortunately, if we find ourselves in a situation where we find daily tasks more dif- ficult or we are unable to achieve the things we used to, this can be quite difficult to come to terms with. A common misconception about care is that it is for individuals that cannot do anything for themselves or for individuals that cannot cope. This may well be how your mother feels. On the contrary, care at home is provided to ensure individuals maintain their quality of life and inde- pendence for as long as possible. A good idea is to let someone warm to the prospect of care by introducing it slowly. Perhaps starting with a domestic call once a week so the Care Worker can check on her general well-being and build a professional relationship which will be needed to make your mother feel comfortable and build enough trust to have more visits as her needs increase. Best wishes,
Debbie Moulton, Care Manager, Bluebird Care
If you have a question that you would like to ask Debbie then please email her at
debbie@bluebirdcare.co.uk
MAIDSTONE • 01622 807451 •
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