Jumping back in the saddle


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t’s not uncommon for the idea of ‘dating’ or ‘getting back out there’ to induce anxiety or discomfort in those of us perpetually unsuccessful in love or, very recently single.


Immediately our minds meander down a valley of previous personal or witnessed experiences, ones that are rarely the best examples on which to focus. Forgotten is the fun to be had in dressing up, visiting new places, meeting new people or growing as individuals and fully embracing what possibilities romance has to offer. When it comes to dating, many people are making it a lot harder than it needs to be and often, it’s totally unnecessary.


As with all things in life, if you embark upon them with


expert guidance and the right


support systems in place, dating can be the most fun you’ll ever have.


It is entirely possible to


exchange a fear of endless dates with the wrong type of partner, for an eagerness to have multiple dates that will leave you spoiled for choice. So


too is it possible to swap explaining your personal history hundreds of times and being rejected, for meeting people who are already completely aware of your desires and are a perfect match for them.


What is frequently misunderstood about love and relationships is that you don’t have to do it all by yourself. Help is available. In the same way you employ a personal trainer, a coach or stylist to do the things they’re trained to do, so too is it possible to receive help from a dating professional.


Using the services of matchmakers or dating coaches have taken on a taboo element since the advent of the Internet, but what people fail to recognise is that the plethora of dating sites and apps have made finding love more difficult for some, not easier. Digital dating is time-intensive and usually comes with a level of reward that doesn’t equate to the efforts put in. Whatever your hesitations or reasons for not jumping back


into the dating saddle, don’t let the digital era be one of them.


If the first few months of a committed relationship are viewed as the classic honeymoon period, then try to consider all the pomp and pageantry before it as one long ceremonial dance. It’s a time to have fun, to dance with abandon, eat extravagantly, be wildly exploratory and deeply grateful for the opportunity to share and combine your world with another.


Whether you meet your ideal match on date one or date five, learning to love the process is easy when the men or women are pre-selected, pre-vetted and enable you both to arrive on an equal footing, with matching requirements and expectations.


This is what working with


professionals is like, time to focus on the experience, create new memories, new stories to share with friends and a future where love is always a very real possibility.


+44 (0) 207 665 6651 / info@berkeley-international.com / berkeley-international.com


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