healthy kids
and growing along with our children,” says Evenson, a certified professional life coach, musician and co-founder of the instrumental recording label Soundings of the Planet (
Soundings.com), in Bellingham, Washington. “Ten, in the early 1980s, I met Joshua Halpern, who wanted to include our perspectives and techniques in his book, Children of the Dawn: Visions of the New Family.” So she shared her way of cultivating
kind, caring and empathetic youngsters that has worked for two generations of her family: “Our role is not to impose our beliefs on children and grandchil- dren, but to guide and help them develop their dreams, visions, paths and passions.” Other experts agree.
Stay Clear. Evenson contends that
How to Communicate with a Child by Amber Lanier Nagle
KID TALK D
udley Evenson didn’t set out to devise a strategy to foster con- structive, nurturing communica-
tions between parents and their offspring.
Yet as she and her husband, Dean, raised their three children decades ago, timeless guiding principles emerged. “We were like other parents—learning
children are oſten mirrors of the surround- ing moods and attitudes, so our example is paramount. “Children absorb our feelings and emotions,” says Melanie Hogin, a social worker who counsels foster families in greater Nashville.“‘Transference’ is its textbook term. Stay calm and clear when you are around children, and keep the lines of communication open.”
Be Consistent. Evenson maintains,
“Mom and Dad or the primary parental figures should try to establish a unified, mutually supportive program.” “Consistency is one of the cornerstones of effective parenting,” says Dana Cool-
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