cheltonian advice
Cheltonian Editor,Carley Jones serves up advice for your problems...
affairwiththeneighbourandmy worldhasended. Icamehomeearly andunexpectedly fromworkoneday andletmyself intoourhouse,only to gouptothebedroomandfindmy wifeof 15years instateofundress withthe23yearoldnext-door neighbour–wehavewinenightswith hisparents!!! I threwhimout the housebut shewas socoldtomeand saidIwasnever theresowhatdidI expect. Iwork longhours soshe doesn’thavetoandtosupportour luxurious lifestyle–whatmoredoes shewant. Idon’t knowwhat todo, she’snot sorryandI’mfinding ithard toforgive. Jim,Hatherley
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Hi Jim, I feel yourpain, itmusthave
beenterriblyupsetting toseeyour wifewithanotherman,especially onewhoyou’vepresumably seen growup!Doyouwant tosaveyour marriage? Itdoesn’t soundlikeyour wifeparticularlydoes. I think you needtohavea long think aboutwhat youwant – sheisobviously feeling neglectedandif youplantostay together youbothneedtomakea big lifestylechange.
relationship andwould like some femalecompany but don’t know
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DearCarley... Icameout of a 10 year long
QDear Carley
DearCarley... Icaughtmywifehavingan
where to
go.My brother suggested Tinder, which I’ve tried, but I had a fewdates and itwasn’t for me. Itwas more fun to swipe through people then actually meet them – people exaggerate a lot on social media! I was tempted to look up an old girlfriend but I don’t knowif she’s married or anything
now.Any suggestions? Mark, TownCentre
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HiMark, It is great you are looking to
get back out there, I admire that. I say this a lot but I suggest getting out and joining some groups to find like-minded people. Iwould also recommend just going out and having funwith friends and forgetting about looking for someone – it always happenswhen you least expect it.
andI hate theway I look now. I know nothing is supposedtomatter as I have abeautifulbaby girl toshowfor itbut it is really
gettingmedown.My tummy is saggy andcoveredin stretchmarks andI’mstill a stone heavier thanwhen I
gotpregnant.My husbandworks long hours soIdon’t have time togotothe gym, and frankly Idon’t have the energy. I just keepthinking that he findsme disgusting andthat hewillbe looking elsewhere,despite the fact he constantly says theopposite. Please help! Connie, Leckhampton
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HiConnie, As a fellowmumIdoknowhow
youfeel, it ishardtoadjust toyour newbody after
ababy.There are various things youcandoathome thoughtohelpwithyourweight – YouTubehave lotsof short exercise videos youcandowhilst thebaby is sleeping andthe internet is fullof healthy andeasy recipes.Gofor long walkswithyourbaby, theywill enjoy the freshair anditwillbe great for youtogetout – if they are sleeping thenwhack inyourheadphones and listen tosomemusicor apodcast. Unfortunately Idon’t have any
suggestions for stretchmarksbut pleasebeproudof them– they are your tiger stripes andthe evidence yourbodymade another human.
DearCarley... I hadababy8months ago
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