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Do Something Unexpected


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his article almost didn’t get published. To be more accurate, it almost didn’t get written. You see, I’ve had this cold now for a couple weeks, and in my fog


of decongestants, I inadvertently left my laptop behind on a plane the other day. Imagine the panic of arriving home late in the evening, on the last fl ight of the day, and wondering why your briefcase is a lot lighter than it should be. Now double the panic. In addition to this article, I’ve been fi nalizing my second book, and I had worked on it feverishly (no pun intended), for the past couple weeks. Did I mention that this is my sole work computer, and I hadn’t backed up my fi les in a long time? Shame on me, but I digress.


I drove back to the airport, told my sad-sack tale to Southwest Airlines, and they radioed a baggage worker on the tarmac. True to what I’d expect from South- west, the worker dropped what he was doing, found a cart to drive him to the hangar, hooked up a ramp of stairs, and combed the airplane for my laptop…and found it.


I tried to give my new hero - Chad - a tip, but he declined twice, saying simply, “Thank you ma’am, but it’s my job.” Wow. We all work in the hospitality industry, but how many times are we wowed by true hospitality these days, especially from each other?


It got me thinking about all the research I’ve been doing for my books these past few years, and some of the unfortunate results I’ve uncovered about how plan- ners and suppliers interact with each other. For people in an industry all about hospitality, we often aren’t that hospitable with each other. How can this be? My fi rst book, Planner Pet Peeves, was two years in the making. I spent a lot of time listening to my planner peers gripe and complain about suppliers, and all the things they seemingly conspire to do to us, to make our jobs unpleasant. My second book is Supplier Pet Peeves (the one that almost got lost forever on a plane). It’s the counter-perspective, as suppliers gripe and complain about plan- ners, and all the things we seemingly conspire to do, to make their jobs unpleas- ant. Sound familiar? It’s been like listening to two warring siblings. They’re both really good-natured kids, but they can’t see how alike they really are, and sometimes they just drive each other nuts. To understand these two siblings, let’s generalize a bit. What do most planners have in common? We’re people-pleasers and problem-solvers. We thrive under pressure. We aim to build strong, reliable business relationships, and our end goal is always the best possible experience for our attendees.


What do most suppliers have in common? Exactly the same things as planners! 42 MIDWEST MEETINGS SPRING 2013 MIDWEST MEETINGS SPRING 2013 by Shawna Suckow, CMP


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