There are six simple rules to remember when talking small: 1.


Be humble in sharing your talents and weaknesses.


2. 3. 4. 5. 6.


Do not be afraid to show vulnerability in yourself but do not overshare. Be confident about yourself.


Do not force the conversation, as it will make you appear desperate or trying too hard. Just be yourself and relax.


Listen to what the other person is saying. People like that. It makes them feel good.


And, if you are trying to have small talk with any of your bosses, you definitely want them walking away from the conversation feeling good to have had that conversation with you.


(Inert. I know that word.)


Chere Estrin is the Chairperson of the Board of Directors of OLP and CEO of Estrin Education, Inc. An entreprenuer with a solid legal background, she has written ten books on legal careers. She has been quoted in Newsweek, The New York Times, The Chicago Tribune and other prestigious publications. Ms. Estrin was also a top exec in a $5 billion company where small talk was part of the daily routine. She quit as soon as she could.


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