Neighbors Newspaper February 2010

FEBRUARY 2010
Beauty
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Inspiring the Human Spirit
By Paige Parker
5 WAYS TO BREAK ON THROUGH TO 2010
Wasn’t ‘09 the wackiest year ever? acting with others, and catching yourself you are really saying “I don’t value this that you can’t renegotiate an agreement
I don’t ever remember welcoming in a when you’re “off” or not paying attention enough to make it happen.” What you but you have to be sure the other party is
new year with more passion for it’s pos- to what you value. should say instead is “YES I will do it”, aware of it and agrees also. Don’t make
sibility’s, because for me ’09 definitely or “NO, I will not do it,” and then keep an agreement if you know you can’t (or
qualifies for ”Out With the Old”, and if 2) Keep Your Agreements your agreement! Now that isn’t to say won’t) keep it.
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