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How do welcoming eyes
simple rituals, like arriving each day your own way dulls an already tame at-
see others?
declaring, “I love seeing you when I traction, but doing the work to connect
get home,” communicates that you with what delights your lover keeps
Welcoming eyes have a ‘bring it on’ ex-
value her presence in your life. Asking the relationship charged and fires the
pression, projected in the upper half of
what she needs and responding chiv- wild attraction that answers your heart’s
the face, from the nose to the hairline.
WILD
alrously, with a natural spring in your desire far beyond your imaginings.
They exude confidence in their own
step, acknowledges that you find her
power to move forward and to connect
interesting. Men are relieved to under-
Paul and Patty Richards apply their
ATTRACTION
in mutual joy with another, with no
stand that their service is needed and
extraordinary powers of awareness to

need to prove anything. Elijah Wood’s
appreciated and thrive on hearing what
visage in the final leaving Middle Earth
see beyond the ordinary fabric of physi-
a “Good job!” they are doing.
scene of The Lord of the Rings embod-
cal reality in order to help individuals
A Conversation with Paul and Patty Richards
Rather than ask “What attracts
ies welcome. Babies’ and dogs’ faces
perceive and cultivate their own great-
me?” ask “What changes me?” Avoid-
evidence such love in motion.
ness. Learn more about Wild Attraction
ing change and continuing to do things
In contrast, the sorting eyes we
at SenteCenter.com.
use in the workplace, constantly eval-
by S. alison Chabonais uating good versus bad, are on guard
against the unknown, warily seeking
to squelch unpredictability. These are
not helpful in setting up a relationship
of a lifetime.
A welcoming, yes-based life em-
H
ealthy energy
braces new people and experiences.
habits, applied
It loves and accepts the mystery in us
to gender aware-
more than what is known and enjoys
ness, result in extraordinary
the inevitable surprise.
relationships, say Paul and
Patty Richards, whose 59 Why is it essential to constantly
“Energetic Facts of Life” assure your mate that he or she
emanate from their own ex-
is your first choice?
perience. They teach these
Feeling chosen changes a person’s
principles through the Senté
energy. Something compressed inside
Center they co-founded in
lets go when you register that someone
the United States and New
has selected you as the center of their
Zealand. Both are trained seers who
roles are to teach us about fatal flaws
universe. If you are fortunate, you first
formerly enjoyed dynamic careers in
and help us make better choices.
experienced this from a parent, as a
aerospace engineering and nursing.
Two things lead to a successful
child. Women, in particular, want to
They call for the intelligent harmoniz-
selection process: time and communi-
feel cherished and claimed. When you
ing of masculine and feminine energies
ty. Getting to know a potential partner
declare your primary choice, all other
in intimate relationship as pivotal to
over time, in many environments and
choices line up around it. Getting be-
humanity’s survival.
circumstances, draws you close as you
hind your choice is transformational; it
This month, in honor of Valen-
see into their world, become a part of
facilitates the formation of a stunning
tines everywhere, Natural Awakenings
their community and erase ‘knowledge
relationship. A mate, lover, best friend
explores some of the key principles
gaps’ about their life that can make
and life companion needs to have
this lovingly aware pair practices, as
you feel unsure. Look for a compas-
uncontested access in a heart-space
articulated in their new book, Wild
sionate view of both genders, one
Attraction.
not tangled in self. How do they treat
not filled with children, work, hobbies
people over whom they have power?
or a pet.
How do we ensure that we are
Tune out their words and witness their
What can lovers do to conscious-
attracted to and attracting a safe,
actions.
Ask the most glorious couple you ly keep the fire alive and the
available partner?
know for help in discerning the quali-
embers glowing?
At heart, you must first have a con- ties that would make an ideal mate for
The hallmark of Cary Grant’s appeal
fidently open, positive expectation you. Women best evaluate women. A
for women is that he was constantly
that qualified candidates exist. It’s a good man has the eyes to see another
paying attention to them, not out of
complex process these days to find a good man. In today’s highly mobile
need, but in sophisticated appreciation
healthy, well-suited individual. Know- communities, we’re operating blind
of the feminine. Men bring the energy
ing this helps you relax, rather than when it comes to an individual’s roots
of attention that women thrive on. Even
worry about the near misses, whose and reputation. Ask around.
natural awakenings February 2010
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