Ask Dana: A Column Where Personal Finance & Life Intersect


By Dana R. Mascalo CFP®


inancial Life Planning connects the dots between our fi nancial reali- ties and the lives we long to live. Life Planning focuses on the human side of fi nancial planning. This is where we can tap into our inspirational fi re. This is where the magic happens.


F The creator of this movement is George Kinder, CFP® . He is the recipient


of numerous awards for leadership in the fi nancial planning industry and is famous for his 3 Questions, which I will include for you at the end of this column.


The 3 Questions are an integral part of the Kinder Institute of Life Planning’s process called EVOKE®


, which stands for


Exploration, Vision, Obstacles, Knowledge, and Execution. Registered Life Planners® use this mindfulness-based methodology to inspire clients to discover, articulate, and pursue their aspirations. It is much different than a typical discovery meeting in fi nancial services. We discuss and resolve obstacles that may exist as blockages. Instead of a traditional fi nancial plan, our fi nancial life plan is alive and adaptable, and we align a client’s fi nancial resources in support of what is most meaningful in their lives.


We have to make this happen! That is


how you feel once you have tapped into this process. I know this because it happened to me, as well as many other clients and friends. For the last 15 years, I’ve been pro- viding fi nancial advice and offering holistic fi nancial planning services. In 2016, I was intrigued by George Kinder’s educational program for advisors and accountants and signed up for the journey.


To become a Registered Life Planner®


part of the intensive training program includes going through the methodol-


,


, RLP®


, AAMS®


, C(k)P®


ogy personally. I began at the beginning and answered the 3 questions, as well as completed a fi nancial inventory exercise. I then went through the EVOKE®


Question #2. This time you visit your process with


another planner for fi ve intense full days. During the rounds of personal dialogue and interaction with your life planner it hits you. Clarity. Focus. Inspirational Fire. The things, people, principals, and/or dreams that mat- ter most to you are front and center during this process and you realize that your life needs to change if you currently aren’t living the life you were meant to live.


What was also surprising is that it


seemed very attainable, rather than an unrecognizable longing that was in my head. We would need a longer column to go through all the amazing details, which I’ll spare you except for that since then, my whole life has changed both personally and professionally. Within a few months, I moved my residence and was inspired to make other changes step by step. Look- ing back since then, I fi nd myself married instead of single, in a new home of my dreams, a business owner instead of an em- ployee, and last but not least, a new mom.


I encourage everyone reading this to be open to possibilities in general and take some time to answer George Kinder’s famous 3 questions. Before you begin, fi nd a quiet and peaceful space and take a few moments to settle in for the exercise.


Question #1. Imagine that you are


fi nancially secure, that you have enough money to take care of your needs, now and in the future. The question is…how would you live your life? Would you change any- thing? Let yourself go. Don’t hold back on your dreams. Describe a life that is com- plete, that is richly yours.


doctor who tells you that you have only 5–10 years left to live. The good part is that you won’t ever feel sick. The bad news is that you will have no notice of the moment of your death. What will you do in the time you have remaining to live? Will you change your life and how will you do it?


Question #3. This time your doctor


shocks you with the news that you have only one day left to live. Notice what feelings arise as you confront your very real mortality. Ask yourself: What did I miss? Who did I not get to be? What did I not get to do?


For those who would like to explore the life planning process on your own, check out the website www.lifeplanning- foryou.com or read George Kinder’s book, Life Planning for You. If you are the type of person that prefers one-on-one guidance, please don’t hesitate to contact me to learn more about how I can help inspire you on your journey and manage your fi nancial life.


Dana R. Mascalo CFP®, RLP®, AAMS®, C(k)P® is a Manag- ing Partner with TrinityPoint Wealth, an independent SEC Registered Investment Advi- sory fi rm in Milford, CT and


Charlotte, NC. Dana advises high net worth clients with complex needs and is sought after by individuals, families, business owners and executives all over CT and the United States. Acting as their personal CFO, Dana looks at a client’s entire fi nan- cial life with a visionary lens, advising on investment portfolios, retirement planning, life transitions, exit planning for business owners, customized advanced cash-fl ow planning and multi-generational wealth transfer strategies. See ad on page 22.


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