just having a cup of coffee or a meal so don’t make it bigger than it has to be.
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway Once you think you are mentally
ready, know that you will have to face those old high school jitters all over again. Only this time the jitters aren’t just about what to wear and how you look. You might have fallout from the betrayal and up- heaval you’ve recently experienced to contend with. This time around there will be extra layers of trepidation when facing the dating scene, but know you can take it slow and not rush into anything serious until you fell 100% ready. Start small; let your friends know you are ready to date and accept invitations to events and par- ties.
You are Worthy of Love Stop those self-sabotaging thoughts
that there is something wrong with you. Women after divorce sometimes feel that they are “damaged goods” and that no one would possibly want to date them. Not true.
Whatever happened in your marriage
took two people to create. Assess your part, take responsibility for it, hold your head up high, and get back out there. When you are feeling anxious think about all the people you know who have found love the second time around. If Meghan Markle can do it then you can too!!
Set Your Intention Dating isn’t your intention - at least
not completely. It will be helpful if you are clear on what you want right now. Are you looking for something light and fun or a life partner? Get clear on what you are looking for so you can decide how you want to approach this adventure.
Go Online I know, I can hear your groan from
here, but all the cool kids are doing it. Actually, it has become very mainstream to use the internet to widen your dating pool. Try it at least. Your odds are better than those of a chance meeting at a cof- feehouse. However, that’s not your only option.
Remember to let the people in your life know you are available to date and get involved in activities you enjoy. That way you will increase your opportunities to
meet your next partner. FDa
Know It’s a Numbers Game Look, some people will disappear, fall
off the face of the earth, or all of a sudden go from hot to cold. That’s just how it is. Don’t take it personally. You never know what’s going on in someone else’s life. Trust if someone does drop out of your orbit then they weren’t right for you. That will make it much easier to move on and not obsess over the why’s and what hap- pened. Just shake it off and let it go.
Don’t Hide Behind Your Kids If you have kids it’s really easy to hide
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So, what are you waiting for? Don’t
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