3.Think about the themes that emerge and ask yourself what’s really bothering you about them.
4.Ask yourself if these things are really true. (For example, are others actually judging you? Will you really disappoint other people, and if so, does it really matter?)
What you’re doing in this process is creating an inventory
so you can see things for what they really are. It’s like creating a budget for our finances; when we know what we need to save or spend, then we truly know what we can afford.
Transformation Leads To Solutions You may notice that what I’m offering is a process, not a
solution. We’re not talking about dream goals or setting up more expectations for yourself. We want to clear away the unimport- ant stuff so that you can see the actual problem. Here’s the secret: once you recognize what’s actually going on, you’ll stop feel- ing overwhelmed and your intuition will kick in. You’ll begin to respond naturally to external factors, and things will begin to move in the right direction, in accord with the not-overwhelmed decisions you’re making. Just for fun I looked up antonyms to “overwhelmed.” Here are a few words I found: assured, success- ful, comforted, triumphant and my favorite, joyful.
Jacob Coldwell is the founder of Mountain Pass Life Coaching, which helps leaders in business and in the family discover and clarify their personal direction through 1:1 coaching, corporate training and small group settings. Learn more at
MountainPassLifeCoaching.com.
Antidepressants not working? Let NeuroStar®
help.
Now there is an FDA-cleared, non-drug, non-invasive way to treat depression with no systemic side eff ects.
Now covered by most major health plans. About NeuroStar Advanced Therapy®
Ask
if NeuroStar is right for you at
NeuroHealthMaine (207) 233-8804
FEEL LIKE YOU AGAIN! The #1 TMS choice of doctors
www.NeuroHealthMaine.com
NeuroStar Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) is indicated for the treatment of Major Depressive Disorder in adult patients who have failed to receive satisfactory improvement from prior antidepressant medication in the current episode. The most common side eff ect is pain or discomfort at or near the treatment site.
NeuroStar Advanced Therapy is only available by prescription. Individual results may vary. A doctor can help decide if NeuroStar is right for you. ©2017 Neuronetics, Inc. Malvern, PA 53-51327-003 Rev A 07/17
20 ELM™ Maine - March/April 2019
Page 1 |
Page 2 |
Page 3 |
Page 4 |
Page 5 |
Page 6 |
Page 7 |
Page 8 |
Page 9 |
Page 10 |
Page 11 |
Page 12 |
Page 13 |
Page 14 |
Page 15 |
Page 16 |
Page 17 |
Page 18 |
Page 19 |
Page 20 |
Page 21 |
Page 22 |
Page 23 |
Page 24 |
Page 25 |
Page 26 |
Page 27 |
Page 28 |
Page 29 |
Page 30 |
Page 31 |
Page 32 |
Page 33 |
Page 34 |
Page 35 |
Page 36