cheltonian advice
Cheltonian Editor,Carley Jones serves up advice for your problems...
QDear Carley
DearCarley... Imet someone on Tinder and
really fell for them. The only problem was oncewe started getting a little more ‘friendlier’ he toldme he is really into dressing like a baby!We have amazing dates but thenwhen we get home he proceeds to put a nappy on andmakeme feed hima bottle? Is this normal? It is getting tough only communication by crying! Kate,TownCentre
hurting anyone... go ahead. However, it doesn’t seemas if you are enjoying this asmuch as your partner
is.Do you like himenough to put upwith it, does he like you enough to stop? I think you really need to have a long chat and see if you can reach a compromise about this situation before you end up having to take himonwalks in a pram!
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nightmare and she is bringing the whole office down but no-one knows howto dealwith her as she has taken a previous employer to court for unfair dismissal. She is rude, arrogant and has no kind words to say about anybody. I love my job and the rest ofmy colleagues, but I amstarted to see themone by one either hand their
Q 50 JUNE 2018 THECHELTONIAN
DearCarley... Iworkwith a lady that is a total
Hi Kate, I say as long as you aren’t
notice in orwork fromhome. The senior department and partners in the company are aware of her behaviour, but they are treading on egg shells around her and admitted to a fellowemployer that their hands are tied. Is there anythingwe can do? Ben,Pittville
situation towalk into every-day and I really don’t have an answer for you. This lady is obviously using her previous lawsuit to her advantage, I would suggest your employers getting legal advice before they risk theirwholework forcewalking out, I amsure that there are laws to protect you frombullying colleagues, nomatterwhat the circumstances.
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can’t seemto get out of it. I have beenwithmy boyfriend for nearly 2
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DearCarley... I amin a toxic relationship but
Hi Ben, This sounds like a really tough
years now, but I amso unhappy and have been for awhile.We’ve had our good times, but I can’t even remember the last timewe laughed together.We have explosive rows that have endedwith himsmashing things,we can both say some horrible things, but he really twists everything
I say or do, sometimes he downright lies andmakesme feel like I am going crazy! I’ve tried to bring up us breaking up before but he just shouted atme and said Iwas ruining his life. Iwant to leave butwe own this house together and if Iwalk away I lose everything! Please help! What shall I do? Jenna, Leckhampton
solicitor as soon aspossible tosee where youstandwiththehouse and what youcando, as youneedto back yourself uplegally. Youcan’t stay together andneedtosort this out as amatterofurgency. Toavoid abig argumentwhynot ask a family member tocome andsitwithyou whilst youtellhimthat youare leaving, Idoubt hewill cause asmuch as a scenewithoutpeople there. If thisdoesn’twork thenwhynotwait tillhe leavesoneday, change the locks andblackbaghis stuff inthe street.
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