NLP
Couple’s Coaching
Juliet Grayson
By Eve Menezes Cunningham
W
e all deserve a good enough
It’s normal to go
as a couple. It’s my job to support them
relationship and sex life,” says Juliet through their journey. That supports me. It’s
Grayson, a psychosexual therapist
through relationship
normal to go through relationship problems.
and NLP Master Practitioner (several times It’s abnormal to not.
over). “Most couples come to me too late. problems. It’s “Couples work is different to individual
They’ve been having problems for a year to 18
months. Sexual problems may have been going
abnormal to not
work. There are big issues around proximity,
autonomy and exploring intimacy. I work
on for three years or longer. with couples of all kinds. Couples, a parent
“Some seek support because they need help Juliet tells couples that she’s working with and child or two people in an organisation.
telling their partner the relationship is over. them to help them stay together “but if one or The whole thing is about couples therapy is
The majority think that it’s their last chance both of you decide to separate I will help you you have to be prepared to step into your
but definitely give it a go. The relationship is do that with dignity. This isn’t about going back authority, get in there and be strong enough
the biggest client, then the two individuals. into your old relationship – it’s broken. This is to hold them.”
Sometimes I’ll refer them to another therapist about creating a new relationship you can both Even if you work mainly with individuals,
for individual therapy.” buy into. It’s not my job to stop them collapsing if you ever work with couples, or even groups
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