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SSAFA FAMILY


small but growing body of research has highlighted the effectiveness of mutual support. Studies have


found that mutual support is generally just as effective as trained therapists in alleviating moderate levels of depression (Bright, Baker & Neimeyer, 1999).


The Bereaved Family Support Group (BFSG) is a Mutual Support group for families of Armed Forces personnel who have died in service whatever the circumstance, be it in combat or non – combat. The Group is a non-campaigning and non-lobbying organisation and exists with the support of the Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen & Families Association – (SSAFA).


In a safe environment, families are able to share their experiences and emotions with those who have also lost a loved one whilst serving in the Armed Forces. Many members of the BFSG have reported how talking to others in the group has made them feel like they are not alone and has helped them through the darkest times of their life.


Linda, a member of the BFSG, whose son died as result of in an IED explosion said:


“The support group has definitely helped – I would have been lost without it. There is a network of families that are in my area and it really is very helpful. It can be a very lonely process but I’ve found that helping


someone else to come to terms with their grief can also help you.”


There is also a private forum online where families in the Support Group can communicate and receive information (www. ssafasupportgroups.org.uk). Potential members can also join the community via the website. Members are also kept up to date with the latest news via the BFSG Newsletter, which is released quarterly.


Two National meetings have been held so far in 2014, one in Leeds and one in Loughborough. National meetings occur on a rotational basis throughout the UK. This provides a perfect platform for families from around the country to meet together in a spirit of mutual support. A memorial is


held during these events in remembrance of their lost loved ones.


Regionalisation has also been piloted successfully in various locations throughout the UK, including Manchester, London and Scotland. This offers the opportunity for more enhanced localised support, as well as smaller and more intimate groups.


In addition to the Families Support Group, two other Groups have also been set up.


Bereaved Sibling Support Group The Bereaved Sibling Support Group (BSSG) brings together young people who have lost a brother or sister serving in the Armed Forces, whatever the circumstance. The BSSG was formed in recognition that many siblings who


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