ask M Famous
| ADVICE
I think W.C. Fields said it best, "Never work with children or animals." I recently attended a wedding where there were no children in the ceremony. Each bridesmaid served as a flower girl, and the couple wore each other's rings around their necks, exchanging them at the appropriate time. This unusual exchange added an unexpected and very sentimental touch to the day. As a matter of fact, the only child at the wedding was disturbing during the nuptials. The time will be right for you to include children in your lives, even though your wedding isn’t that time.
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I'm sure you don't receive questions from Grooms very often,
but I need a little assistance. I am considering wearing a suit for my upcoming wedding instead of a tux. My fiancé has no preference and has made it clear that the decision is mine to make. My fiancé advised me to write into you. While I appreciate her flexibility, I really just want someone to tell me what to do. Is it common? Does it really matter and are there consequences of choosing one over the other?
Thank you, Husband in Training
A. Husband in Training , oh the plight of being a Groom! I tell you, I am surprised that your soon-to-be-wife doesn't have a stance on this topic. Let’s face it, most men really do want their loving wife to make at least some of the tougher decisions. To be honest, your choice in
attire should reflect the over all “feel” of the wedding. If it is more formal, then I would certainly suggest a tux - not necessarily with tails but a tux all the same. If you are to be wed on a dock overlooking your childhood lake, then a tux may be a bit much. What is the dress code for the event? Just like a job interview, dress one step above the attire that is required.
Since you need someone to make a final decision, I say, “go with a tux.” Now I
Q
Given your knowledge of hair stylists, I know you can help me
with this question. I am paying for my bridal party to have their hair done for our wedding. The same stylist is going to do everyone's hair. She also happens to be the owner of the salon. What is the protocol on tipping her? Is there a specific amount or is it included in the price per person?
Thanks for the "tip!"
A. This is one of the most common questions that people have for me. I say that if the stylist is coming to your location, then they will build a "travel fee" into the price they have quoted you. This price can get relatively steep, and I have had some people say they were offended because, "She has been doing my hair for 5 years!" BUT, keep in mind, they have to charge for the work they will miss by NOT being in the salon. This includes tips too. So, I would consider a tip that is approximately 35%. If you visit the stylist at the salon where they normally take clients, then a normal 20% tip is in order. The difference being that if they are on location with you then they are able to fix any last minute mishaps before you walk down the isle.
just hope you are not getting married on a beach and your fiancé isn’t wearing a sundress and no shoes. Awkward!
Do you have a style question you want to ask M Famous? Send it to:
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