Support for infertility
How can we support couples and individuals struggling with infertility? Don’t be afraid to support someone. Ask if you can bring that casserole over—perhaps on the day of a treat- ment or after a negative pregnancy test. And maybe bring some chocolate too.
From the beginning, if you discover
that someone is struggling to get preg- nant, ask: “Do you want me to ask you about it?” Sometimes the answer is no, sometimes it is yes. Be specifi c: “Does it help to talk about your treatment?” “Could I offer to pray or light a candle for you on the days you have certain procedures?” Then send a text message when you’ve done it.
Ask about other things that remind the person that she or he is a talented, interesting person already. Although anything to do with kids might be the last place a person strug- gling with infertility wants to be, don’t assume that just because someone isn’t a parent she or he doesn’t have valuable insight to share about chil- dren’s ministry (or any ministry for that matter).
Be sensitive around celebrations like Mother’s and Father’s days. Is there a way to include or honor folks who wish to be parents but aren’t? Stay close if someone miscarries. Is there a support group, a particu- lar Stephen’s Minister or counselor people can be referred to?
Lindsay Mack
SHUTTERSTOCK
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