“ ROBIN NELSON
Mental illnesses,
mental disorders, and suicidal thoughts or actions are uncom- fortable discussion topics for congrega- tions and society.
As a pastor for 30
years and the father of a child with mental ill- ness for the past 12, I’ve learned more than I ever imagined about mental illness and suicide. It’s opened my eyes to a whole new area of minis- try with God’s people. Here are ways to
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create an atmosphere of acceptance in your con-
gregation for anyone suff ering from any illness: • In sermons and conversations, pastors can share positive stories about how Jesus cared for, accepted and loved people struggling with mental illness or disorders. • As leaders, emphasize that mental illnesses and disor- ders are serious but treatable medical conditions. Talk about positive outcomes for people who have managed their mental illness—but only when you have the per- mission of the person with the illness. • Become familiar with mental health resources in your community. Be aware that medical insurance drives the availability of treatment options and family member
support. Be ready for the reality that in some regions, resources for professional help may be limited. Remember that regardless of insurance status, hospi-
tal emergency departments are always available for seri- ous mental health events and any indication of suicidal thoughts or actions. • Learn from the mental health community about sup- port groups in your area for individuals and families dealing with mental health issues. Post or list these resources on bulletin boards and online. • Let your congregation and community know you are there to help. • Be attuned to stories you hear in the congregation or community that might hint at mental illness. Oſt en this is a secret, stigmatized disease that brings shame to the mentally ill. Train youth leaders and confi rmation and Sunday school teachers to watch for signs of mental ill- ness and violence. • Create and maintain a private and safe space for people to talk. • Plan educational events around Mental Health Month (May), Suicide Prevention Month (September) or Men- tal Illness Awareness Week (Oct. 6-12). • Don’t be afraid to let people with mental illness serve as a resource. On occasion they are willing to share their experiences. T is can be a transformative moment for a congregation. • If you hear any hint of a suicide threat, act immedi- ately. Seek outside help if needed. No threat should be taken lightly. I take high blood
pressure medicine to manage my disease. My child takes medi- cine to manage her disorder. God loves us both.
Resources • “Th e Body of Christ and Mental Illness,” the ELCA social message on mental illness (
www.elca.org/mentalillness).
• Lutheran Services in America: Search for “Mental Health Services” (
www.lutheranservices.org). • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: A free, 24/7 service with support, information and local resources for suicidal people and those around them (800-273-8255;
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org).
• Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration’s national helpline: A 24-hour free and confi dential line providing treatment referral and information about mental and/or substance use disorders, prevention and recovery in English and Spanish (800-662-4357; TTY 800-487-4889;
www.samhsa.gov/treatment).
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Author bio: Mitchell is pastor of Christ the Lord Lutheran Church, Lawrenceville, Ga.
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