wisewords Deep Listening:
A Healing Practice Interview with Dr. Michael DeMaria Psychologist, Author, Sound Healing Artist and 4-time Grammy Nominee
Michael, you have said “True joy is when your greatest joy meets the world’s greatest need.” What does the world need that gives you joy in your work? In my three decades of practice,
I have learned that everything is fl owing, unfolding and transforming— always. No matter what we are experiencing in this moment, it is already beginning to shift in subtle and profound ways. Who we really are is pure present moment awareness. When we grasp this, we can recognize Peace Within. The world needs all of us to embody this peace within. We live in a time of future shock, information overload and data smog. We are exposed to more information in one Sunday newspaper than our ancestors would encounter in their entire lifetime. This causes extreme distraction from our essential true nature. The resulting stress causes mental, emotional and physical ills. Everyone is searching for peace outside of themselves. The hope is always that the next relationship, job, car or iPhone will bring us peace and happiness. Buddha said, “Peace comes from within, do not seek it without.” My joy is helping people fi nd their way back to their inner life— and discover the deep abiding ocean of peace that lies within.
Can you tell us a story where your music particularly infl uenced a healing? Years ago there was a young mother in her 30s, dying of cancer and I came to hospice to play the fl ute for her.
You have talked about the imperfect mesh between reality and our expectations. When we accept what is real, and separate that from our expectations of what SHOULD BE, then happiness is possible. How does your work facilitate this acceptance? Meditation and Deep Listening are
powerful tools for examining these fi lters of expectation. Most people don’t even realize these fi lters are causing them great suffering. Meditation and Deep Listening put you in a place of receptivity. Instead of trying to control what is happening, you learn to ride the current of life: working with what is unfolding instead of resisting it. Life is a river you have never been down before with twists and turns—so journeying towards your goal is never going to look the way you think it should. It is learning to maneuver through the rapids skillfully without denying them or being angry that they are there.
You have an upcoming workshop in Asheville, NC called “Deep Listening.” How is listening important to our health as individuals, and to the health of our planet?
One of the reasons we are ill as
I practice deep listening when I am playing—as if the music is already in the air and all I am doing is opening my heart for the music to fl ow through me. My fi ngers were doing some strange things and I was just trying to follow. The woman, a surfer, said, “What is that song?” I said, “I don’t know—I have never played it before, it must be your song.” She replied, “It reminds me of the wave I rode into this life, and it gives me courage to ride the wave back out.” We are each a song that is literally the animating vibration of our life—and it’s what we are here to share. It’s in facing death—our own, or that of a loved one—that our soul emerges most powerfully and we catch a glimpse of who we really are.
30 Central Florida natural awakenings
individuals and as a society is we have forgotten how to truly listen. 1) We have forgotten to listen to our bodies and hearts, which is the way we discover what is true in this moment. 2) We have forgotten how to listen to each other, to REALLY listen. We ALL need a good listening to. Compassionately listening to another’s heartfelt story literally heals. 3) Our inability to listen to our own inner nature is refl ected in our inability to listen to outer Nature. It is only through listening with the ears of our hearts to the greater natural world that we can fi nd true meaning and discover our true place in the world. More than ever our health as individuals is the foundation for the greater health of the planet and all beings that call Earth home. Dr. Michael DeMaria presents “Deep Listening: Heal Your Heart, Heal the World” at the OM Sanctuary in Asheville June 28-29th. Register by May 15 for free access to the Friday night concert. Visit
www.AwakeningAsheville. com for more info and to register.
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