Who brings up the subject fi rst can be an indication of where your relationship will end up, and these days, both sides fear indicating a commitment that involves marriage and babies. Nevertheless, this is a subject any couple should feel easy chatting about, and unless you do have this kind of comfort level between you, it is unlikely that you are anywhere near making just such a commitment to each other.
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POSTING YOUR TOGETHER PICTURES ON FACEBOOK – T is is like a declaration of your
status as a couple. It is an indirect way of telling the world that you AND your boyfriend are in a serious relationship and therefore that although you are both still single, you are defi nitely not available.
FENG SHUI TIP Do select pictures that show you close and smiling and happy. T e more people see your together pictures, the more attention you must pay to them, as visuals have a way of becoming reality. Never post pictures of there being a third party between you, or ones that show you angry or in a tense situation.
introduces the element of exclusivity. In love relationships, BFFs can often be a nuisance factor, especially when the BFF poses some kind of threat to the relationship. Unless you are comfortable with each other’s best friends, it is unlikely that you can end up together. It is a lot worse when the BFF of your boyfriend turns out to be a beauty whose easy intimacy with your boyfriend annoys you.
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FENG SHUI TIP In this situation, better to be safe than sorry. Place an amethyst with a Rooster under your bed to guard against your boyfriend succumbing to the charms of the BFF or anyone else.
ACCEPTING EACH OTHER’S BEST F RIENDS – Thi s
TALKING MARRIAGE AND COMMITMENT – This is a subject that can be quite tricky.
FENG SHUI TIP If marriage is what
you want from your boyfriend, defi nitely it helps if you activate your space with all the feng shui marriage enhancers. Usually, your bedroom is where you must have the double happiness sign, the presence of the Dragon and Phoenix as well as the red lanterns. T ese are powerful symbols that bring you the luck of matrimony, especially if you already have a steady boyfriend and all you need is for him to also think of marriage.
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BEING THE PLUS ONE ON INVITES - When you can safely assume that you are automatically the one he takes to important work/corporate/social functions that requires him to bring a
partner, you know you can consider yourself offi cially his girlfriend. To ensure that the relationship grows in a satisfactory way, use love enhancers to smooth the path of love for you.
FENG SHUI TIP In feng shui, the Earth element enhances your love life and hence the best is to place smooth crystal balls - 6 is a good number- in your home. Whenever the home’s feng shui energies are made harmonious and auspicious with the presence of crystal balls, it also enhances the romantic luck of the young ladies of the home, bringing the potential of marriage as well. T e crystal balls can be placed in the center of the living room on a coff ee table or along the Southwest wall of the living room.
SEEING EACH OTHER WITHOUT ADORNMENTS - with no makeup or any other kind of adornments. If you are comfortable and able to be au natural with your boyfriend, then you are defi nitely at
a stage in your relationship when things can go further. Note that despite the permissiveness of today’s love environment, it is still a big deal when it comes to being your natural self physically. Young women must realize that men (their parents) do diff erentiate between good time girls and girls with marriage potential. So it is important the kind of signal you send to your boyfriend.
FENG SHUI TIP Dressing conservatively and being well-groomed is considered good feng shui. T is means avoiding see-through clothes that reveal too much and avoiding looking like a tramp.
and cooking together, shopping for each other and for friends together - these are very romantic and unifying things to do together, and if you have reached this stage in your relationship, you are defi nitely getting serious. T ese are activities that create a domestic intimacy in your together moments.
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FENG SHUI TIP T e matriarchal and patriarchal roles become important. Let the man pay, let the woman choose!
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BUYING GROCERIES TOGETHER – T is can be something of a milestone in any relationship. Buying groceries
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