Emotional Well-Being
in the Pandemic Age Self-Care Strategies for Tough Times by Sandra Yeyati
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s the pandemic ravages our country, we are engulfed by a sea of challenging emotions, including
fear, loss, anger, disappointment and grief. Compounding the suffering, past emotion- al traumas and pent-up desires are surfac- ing and crying for attention. One way to navigate these treacherous waters is by first enveloping ourselves in self-compassion. Next, we can gather the courage to face our fears and experience unpleasant feelings in order to heal them and let them go. Ten, we search for and internalize positive emotional states to rewire our brains for positivity. Tis noble voyage promises immense rewards along the way.
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Self-Compassion Some of us chase self-esteem like the Holy Grail, yet it eludes us when we need it most. Faced with a failing grade or cruel insult, our self-worth withers. We can’t understand why we lost it or how to get it back. When we attach our self-worth to achievements or comparisons with other people, self-esteem becomes unstable and unreliable. Enter self-compassion, the life-changing
perspective of showing kindness to ourselves in any and all situations—a supportive best friend that lives within us and can be ac- cessed any time, every day. A pioneer and
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expert in this topic, Kristin Neff believes that self-compassion has three components: a decision to be kind to ourselves, a mindful awareness when we are in pain so that we can seek some relief and a sense of common humanity or connectedness. We already know how to be compas-
sionate, says Neff, an associate professor of educational psychology at the University of Texas at Austin and co-author of Te Mind- ful Self-Compassion Workbook. “It’s linked to the parasympathetic nervous system, which is a natural part of our organism. We’re tap- ping into this way of feeling safe, which is through care, bonding and connectedness.” Encouraging our friends when they’re
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