cheltonian advice
Cheltonian Editor,Carley Jones serves up advice for your problems...
QDear Carley Q
DearCarley... My boyfriend and I have
decided thatwewant tomove in together andwe have already started looking at
houses.However, my parents, even thoughwe have been together for three years, have never liked him and completely disapprove of our decision. This has put a massive strain on our relationship and all I’m trying to do is make both sides happy, whilst deciding on what’s best for me. I honestly do not knowwhat to do anymore and I just cannot understandwhymy parents take such a dislike to someoneso important inmy life. Please helpme cometo a decision on what to do and howI can try andmake both sides civil with each other. Annabelle,Benhall
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Dear Annabelle, When two people you love so
much don’t see eye to eye, this can be theworst thing ever and especiallywhen it puts a strain on both relationships. The best advice I can give you is to gowith your heart andwhatmakes you happiest. If your parent’s opinion meansmore to you than any relationship, then stand by their
decision.However, in this situation you obviously love your boyfriend verymuch and if hemeans that much to you, then Iwould stick by himand let your parents accustom to himand you. I really hope that
both your parents and boyfriend can sort things out between them and that this does not interrupt your
feelings.Good luckwith everything.
DearCarley... There’s a really crude and
embarrassing rumour going around aboutmeat University which is really upsetting. It’s 100% not true and I think I knowwhomadeit up. But people are looking atmeweirdly when Iwalk around campus and I I’ve lost a good friend because of it. Howdo I convince everyone it’s a rumour and not true? Alex, Leckhampton
everyone and unfortunately, they can be really nasty. Spend some timewith your friends to get your mind off it. They’re the people that aren’t going to believe some silly rumour and you could end up laughing about it. The truth is that youwon’t be able to convince absolutely everyone it’s a rumour; some peoplewill just believe everything they hear, as long as they have something to gossip about. A lot of drama happens every day in every aspect of life, so I guarantee they’ll be talking about something else by next week. The best thing to dowhen anything like this happens is to just ignore it.
A 50 FEBRUARY /MARCH2018 THECHELTONIAN
Dear Alex, Rumours happen to nearly
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DearCarley... Iamin a toxic relationship but
can’t seemto get out of it. I have been withmy boyfriend for nearly 2 years now, but Iamso unhappy and have been for a while.We’ve had our good times, but I can’t even rememberthe last timewe laughed together.We have explosive rows that have ended with him smashing things,we can both say somehorrible things, but he really twists everything I say or do, sometimes he downright lies and makesmefeel like Iamgoing crazy! I’ve tried to bring up us breaking up before, but he just shouted atme and said Iwas ruining his life. Iwant to leave butwe ownthis house together and if Iwalk away I lose everything! Please help! Jenna, Leckhampton
solicitor as soon aspossible tosee where youstandwiththehouse and what youcando, as youneedto back yourself uplegally. Youcan’t stay together andneedtosort this out as amatterofurgency. Toavoid abig argumentwhynot ask a family member tocome andsitwithyou whilst youtellhimthat youare leaving, Idoubt hewill cause as muchas a scenewithoutpeople there. If thisdoesn’twork thenwhy notwait tillhe leavesoneday, change the locks andblackbaghis stuff inthe street.
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