cheltonian advice
Cheltonian Editor,Carley Jones serves up advice for your problems...
but I’mfeelingunder-appreciated andinneedof someexcitement in my life. I’vesignedmyselfuptoafew websites for someflirtingandto makemyself feel valuedagainbut I’m scaredthat Imayendupcrossing the
line.Sofar, it’sharmlesshowever last week I gavemynumberout toaguy andwe’venowprogressedtotexting everyday. I lovemyhusbandand don’twant tothrowawaywhatwe havebut Imiss thisexcitement. Nicole,WymansBrook
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HiNicole, Youmightwant toremind
yourselfof that littleoldsaying ‘The grass is always greenerontheother side’. If youwant torisk throwing your children’s lifeintochaos andbreaking yourhusband’sheart thencarryon withwhat youaredoing, youare selfish. I suggest youtalk toyour husbandabouthowyouarefeeling (not thetexting) andifnothing improves andyoustayunhappy then dosomething ‘adult’ about it.
messages fromawomanclaiming to have had an affair withmy husband and I don’t knowwhat to do. I haven’tmentioned it to him yet as, before this point, I’ve trusted him completely but it’s tearingmeup inside.Heis going to admit or deny it
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DearCarley... I’ve been receiving Facebook
and I have no proof, except this woman’sword – she claims they worked together and had relations in the stairwell atwork.What do I do? Annabel, Leckhampton
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Hi Annabel, This is a really hard one to
answer – thiswoman could be causing trouble to disrupt your marriage or she could be telling the truth. You need to find out for your own
sanity.My advice is to grab your girls and do some investigating – you’d be amazed aboutwhat us women can find outwhenwe put ourminds to it.
drinks and drives and I’m soworried Q
DearCarley... Afriend of mine repeatedly
that theymay kill themselves or someoneelse that Iwant to report them to the police.However, they have young children and a job that theywould lose if I did so I don’t knowwhat to do. If something happens I will blamemyself yet I can’t ruin his life. Please help. Martin, Prestbury
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Hi Martin, If he ends up killing someone
or himself he will not only ruin his ownlife but his family’s, and somebody else’s family.Why not warn him first – give him a chance to sort himself out and if he doesn’t take yourwarning seriously then the next time he gets behind the wheel after a fewdrinks… pick up the phone and dial the police.
QDear Carley
DearCarley... I’mamarriedmumof three
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