q DATING AND DATING RELATIONSHIPS
Dating probably makes up a significant part of your social life. Remember that even in dating relationships you have legal rights and responsibilities, particularly when it comes to decisions and behavior involving sex.
It is a crime for any person to compel or force any other person to engage in any kind of sexual contact or activity. This is true even if the two people know each other or have been dating for a long period of time. Forcing or compelling someone to engage in a sexual act includes physical violence, threats, and giving a person drugs or alcohol and taking advantage of them. It is a crime to engage in a sexual act with a person without getting their consent first.
If someone has forced you to engage in any sexual contact or activity against your will, you should contact the police by calling 9-1-1 and the rape crisis center in your area by calling the statewide hotline at 1-800- 489-7273. The statewide hotline will automatically connect you to the nearest rape crisis center, and it’s confidential to anonymous callers. An advocate can help you sort out your options and your feelings.
Unwanted sexual contact puts both your health and safety at risk and should be taken seriously. Protect yourself by taking control of your own safety, and avoiding situations where you feel threatened or uncomfortable. Unwanted sexual contact can be dangerous and can have an impact on your health and well-being. Trust your instincts and seek help if something feels wrong. If something has happened to you, it’s important to remember that it’s not your fault and help is available.
It is a crime to engage in a sexual act with someone under the age of 16, regardless of whether or not that person consents, unless both people involved are between 15 and 19 years old, and the act is consensual. Even if someone tells you that he or she is older than 16 years, if it is not true, the act is still against the law.
Personal Safety
State law protects you from harassment, stalking, threats, or violence. If you feel that your personal safety is being threatened, call the police. There are also protection orders available through the courts that may help you stay safe. If you and the person threatening your safety
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