not getting along with my adopted son
Hello, my husband and I recently adopted a little boy. We’re having difficulty attaching to him emotionally, and find everyday a challenge just to get by. We have sought professional help and are undergoing therapy. We have been married for 12 years and our home has always had a pleasant and harmonious feel, but since adopting him, it has had a very “heavy” atmosphere. I recently realized that our signs clash with him --- my husband is a horse, I am a tiger and he is a rat. Are there any cures you can recommend to “clear the air” and enhance our relationship with our adopted son?
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Having a son is such a great joy! My dear, this is indeed your good karma to have finally got a son after all these years. So please let me allay your fears, as being a new parent is always challenging. Please remember that you are the adult and he is just a little boy - only 5 years old! His behaviour is guided by yours! If you show him love UNCONDITIONALLY, you will see a huge change in his attitude! Remember that he also has to adjust to having new parents and this always takes time! So please be very patient! In terms of astrology, 2011 has been a very quarrelsome year for the Rat as the #3 star rules his direction... so if you find that he has been a little argumentative, it is just the stars playing up. Place a Dragon holding a flaming sword in the North to calm this down. Now, the Tiger does not clash with the Rat at all, so it is you, the mother, who must take the lead in making this special boy feel loved, happy and safe. As for your husband, he should carry the RABBIT and ROOSTER with him at all times and this will nullify his clash with your son. The Horse is also having a difficult time with his health this year so perhaps he is less patient than you. Overall, you should both feel very fortunate to have this little boy and I am sure he will bring you plenty of happiness in future if you can just relax!
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