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my mother in law is taking over


They are calling all the time, and imposing their will on my husband. Lately they even ignored my birthday. I feel so depressed. I love my husband but I don’t know how to deal with my in-laws any more. Is there any feng shui cure I can apply? Thank you so much in advance.


Q A


Perhaps you are just being over-sensitive! In-laws rarely have bad intentions and more often than not, they are just trying to show that they care. Remember that they have had their son since he was born and it is not easy to adjust to a new daughter in law – someone whom they barely know. Remember that old people always feel fearful of losing their children. So perhaps you should make the first move and reach out to them. If you make the effort to call them more often, and show that you care, they might not have ignored your birthday. Perhaps they did not know it was your birthday! Don’t feel depressed. Use feng shui to help you. Place a Dragon with flaming sword in the NORTH and strengthen the Matriarchal sector in the Southwest with Crystals. Place an amethyst crystal slab under your bed on your side, tied with red thread to the foot of the bed. This will safeguard your husband’s trust in you. And above all, treat your parent-in-laws with plenty of respect and love. Be the one who calls them first. If you call them often, they will stop calling your husband!


I’ve been happily married for the past 3 years. But lately, it seems like my parents-in-law are trying to manage my marriage and my life.


keeping my cat’s ashes


My cat has passed away and my husband and I treated her like she was our little baby... We have cremated her and brought her ashes back and placed it in our house so that she can always remain with us. Please tell us if this is OK from a feng shui point of view.


Q A


I’m very sorry to hear about the passing of your cat – you are obviously very attached to her. Even though you still have her ashes, her spirit has already passed on and she is no longer with you. Perhaps it might be better not to keep her ashes in your house, as doing so has turned your house into its tomb! Tombs are Yin feng shui - so it is much better to dig a hole and bury your cat’s ashes. Or better still, scatter her ashes into the ocean and let her body go back into the waters and the earth. Before you do so, you may chant TAYATA OM BEKANZAY BEKANZAY MAHA BEKANZAY BEKANZAY RADJA SAMUDGATAY SOHA three times and blow onto her ashes. This little prayer creates the potential for your cat to achieve good rebirth in a happy place.


www.fswmag.com NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2011 | F ENGSHUIWORLD 85


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