A new vision is like new software. Like a computer, you are upgrading
the program to get better results. Many experts in the field note that
it takes about three weeks for that virtual hourglass to appear on your
“monitor” and for real change to take root.
glued to something that resonates with your new vision. This creative side, then using clothing as a means of expression
may sound silly, but it actually influences your subconscious can be a fun way to do that. Our image is more important
mind. Your subconscious does most of the work, and its lan- than we think or would like. It is not about beauty or perfec-
guage is symbols (hence, the fun pictures and emotions they tion, it’s about being congruent in how you present yourself.
generate). Dressing messy does not convey order. Dressing boring does
not convey festive. Dressing busy does not convey poise.
Organize Your Environment and Belongings The idea is to have your outer self reflect your inner self - to
This is where you have the opportunity to take personal let your personal style permeate everything about you - your
inventory. Go really deep. Does your world reflect the person thoughts, words, deeds, work, home and life.
you are now deciding to become? Do you live in a way that As you practice being your new vision, you will see
supports or thwarts your new vision? If you find you are feel- great change if you stick to it until your neuropathways fire
ing one thing but are living another, these tips will support and fuse a new software program for you to express yourself
your alignment: effortlessly - until of course, you are ready to upgrade again.
Change your environment. Paint over or clear out any-
thing that communicates the old you and add anything that Kristin Mackey is an international speaker, coach and
“says” this is what your new version has chosen. artist living in Miramar, FL. Visit www.kristinmackey.com for a
If you look at or use something that feels “off” or un- KMack® Workshop Schedule.
comfortable, or makes you feel the opposite of what you are
creating, change it. Every item you own communicates a
message about you.
Finish old projects or toss them and make peace with
your decision. Only hold onto projects or tasks that are worth
your time, energy and resources NOW.
Change Your Everyday World
It is essential that you upgrade who and what you sur-
round yourself with on a daily basis. You cannot become one
thing while everything else in your world is another. Take the
time to sign up, join, volunteer or invite new experience into
your life (no matter how afraid you are or how awkward it
feels). Here are some ideas:
Take a class, join a group, make a speech and surround
yourself with people and EVENTS that resonate with your
new vision. The idea is that you are now going to soak in
new energy. You need to be near the new energy, to feel it, to
develop a comfort level with it - and then finally, own it.
Remove anyone or anything that pulls you off track.
Yes, there are some people who cannot leave our reality, but
we can create boundaries and engage less if necessary. Your
changing will freak people out, so if someone criticizes your
new efforts (and most will), be patient. After time passes,
however, true friends and true love always meet you on the
other side.
Dress the part. How we “pull ourselves together” tells
the world how we feel about ourselves, our work and our
life. It is not about money or being on the cutting edge of
fashion. It’s about being you in the most authentic and best
way. If you decide you want to let the world see more of your
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