cheltonian advice
Cheltonian Editor,Carley Jones serves up advice for your problems...
QDear Carley
DearCarley... Summer is nearly here but I
always have a little dread at getting my legs out as I amso pale! I look at olive skinned girlswith envy and would give anything to have a golden tan. I tried to fake tanwhen Iwas younger but ended up looking like a Wotsit and I amscared to use sun- beds so end up living inmaxi dresses and long sleeved cardigans during the summer. Please help! AnnaMarie,CharltonKings
should embrace your pale skin but as a fellowpale skinned girl that wouldmakeme a hypocrite as I am a bit of a fake tan hoarder. I personally avoid sun-beds due to the health risks so I ama big advocate of faking it. Iwouldn’t let one bad experience put you off faking it, these days there are so many amazing tans on themarket that youwill find one to suit you, check outmy tried and tested pages for inspiration. There are also lots of local salons thatwill apply it professionally for you, sowhy not go and treat yourself.
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an affair but nowI can’t help getting suspicious that he is doing the same tome!Wewere in our 20’swhen it happened and he left his ex girlfriend forme, fast forward 8 years
Q 50 MARCH/APRIL 2018 THECHELTONIAN
DearCarley... I gotwithmy husband after
Hi AnnaMarie, I can sit here and say that you
andwe aremarriedwith a small baby but he is still going out asmuch as he didwhenwewere dating. I did always go outwith him, I think part of thiswas because Iwas aware of how wemet, but nowmy priorities have changed andwhen your partner is coming through the door at 6am you can’t help but be suspicious. What shall I do? Rachel,Rowanfield
get together after an affair doesn’t meant the samewill happen to you, we all do thingswe regretwhenwe are younger and you have lasted 8 years since
then.However I can see why you are suspicious, you have a young child and he is still acting like a singleman. You need to have a chat, he can’t have his cake and eat it, and your husband hasmade a commitment to you so needs to start acting like a husband and father. If he isn’t prepared to change then you need tomake a decision whether you are happy to live this life or not.
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Hi Rachel, Firstly just because you did
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DearCarley... My friend keeps borrowing
money offme but is not payingme back! It startedwith the odd £5 here and there but that figure is adding up and he hasn’tmade any attempt to even offer to give it back. I wouldn’tmind the delayed payment if hewas just honest that he couldn’t afford to payme as Iwill always help a friend out but I sawonline that he had just been on a shopping spree! What shall I do? James, Leckhampton
difficult situationtobe inbut I think youneedtomanupslightly andask for itbackoutright, hemayhave genuinely forgot andneed
reminding.Maybe approach it gently withhimandsay thathavenoticed hehasbeen shopping soare assuming thathehas themoney to pay youback.He thenhas two options,pay youor give youapretty goodreasonwhyhe can’t. Ifhe doesn’tdoeither thenI suggest forgettinghis friendship.
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Hi James, Afriendowing youmoney is a
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