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Love stops time and starts eternity – but how do we get it right?
BUZZ TELLS US THAT, WHETHER YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP OR LOOKING FOR ONE, MASTERING STATE IS KEY TO NOT JUST YOUR RELATIONSHIP SUCCESS BUT TO YOUR LIFE SUCCESS. THEN SHE PACKS THE ARTICLE FULL OF STRATEGIES AND HOW-TO’S.
BY BUZZ MCCARTHY L
ove stops time ... and starts eternity. Relationships are the places of the greatest joy and also the greatest pain – joy because
there is nothing to equal a deeply intimate relationship; pain because too many people are in a relationship by default and have little idea how to design their ultimate relationship or how to stay in their relationship vision and live in a state of love and acceptance. There are strategies for all this; just
as there are strategies to be wealthy and healthy. To create a relationship by design there are some basic things you must do. First you need to clear any beliefs that hold you back – and there will be some powerful ones in there such as ‘There’s no-one out there for me’ or ‘I’m not pretty/intelligent/rich/good enough to attract the mate I want’. Secondly it is vital that you are
absolutely clear on your values and your boundaries. I’m a firm believer in boundaries: your absolute musts and absolute must nevers – and if you have them in place you can toss rules out the window. Rules are only there to make
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someone else wrong – so they don’t add a lot to a relationship! It’s like, ‘Do you want to be right or do you want to be in the relationship?’ And the third thing is the need to be able to access a state of love – whether your beloved is in your life or not! State is the single most important skill
in the world. It is the way you greet the day each morning, the way you navigate yourself through your day and the way you go to bed each night. It is the habits you form and it is vital because it is your habits that become your personality. To be in a loving state you must focus
on joy, on how you would feel to be in a loving relationship, on how good it feels to give, to share, to support and nurture a friend or relationship, and to be in a state of gratitude as much as you possibly can. I believe joy is our natural state and that everyone deserves to love and be loved. It doesn’t take much but, because most of us are dabblers, we don’t necessarily get enough of it or some of the other things that make life a masterpiece. Your radiance is what attracts your mate. If you are not yet in the relationship of
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