Each February comes Valentines Day. Best-selling Happiness
author Sophie Keller says the day is time for both singles and couples to think about what love means to them ...
If you're single and looking for love,
remember, there are 7 billion people on the planet and that means there's someone out there for you. No matter what your age, the cards are always shuffling.
It’s important to enjoy being single.
Some people think their life will start when they meet somebody. Instead of thinking in that way, fill your time with fun things that you're passionate about. Enjoy doing courses, classes and hobbies. Go out with people and have a great time. After all, you won't be single forever. Make the most of the freedom single life offers!
Be confident about waiting. There's no
rush. Take your time to improve and develop. Because if you have unresolved issues, you're going to magnetize people to you
who respond to those issues in some way. Then, when you change and move on, if their attraction to you was based on something that wasn't really you in the first place, you're going to leave them behind.
Make sure you’re evolving while you’re
single, do personal development trainings, go to therapy if you feel you need it. Do whatever you need to transform as a person, because the more you drop your masks and armour, the more likely you are to attract the perfect person.
Find your passions and follow those
in classes too. It might be photography or art or languages, or anything else. It's not that you're filling in time while you wait for the person of your dreams. These new experiences also make you attractive. Your
emotional state is better when you've actively engaged. You're more interesting and sexier. You meet someone and say, "I've trained in
this and I went and saw this" - and they see a passion for life, a passion for learning. They don't have to be into the same things, but they see the love of life - and that's always something to respond to!
When you meet someone who's right
for you, it's like you've come home. Every cell in your body will feel that this is the right person to continue the next stages of your life journey with. So make sure that every cell says "yes" before you commit more deeply.
Once you're in that loving relationship,
one of the keys to making it work is to LISTEN to each other. If they're mad with you, there's