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HOW DO YOU DEFINE HOME?


I love it when cohesiveness emerges from


disparate parts. It’s what happened for September’s issue and it was a lovely undercurrent beyond our House and Home theme, a happy accident to be sure. More on that in a minute… We work to organize interviews and stories around


a topic for the month and for September, I started by looking to find an LGBTQ person in the design field that we could chat with. This year’s winner was Bobby Berk, the star interior designer from Netflix’sQueer Eye, the show that has taken the world by storm. Sort of a reboot, but not, of the originalQueer Eye for the Straight Guy that ran from 2003 to 2007 and focused on tearing down and then rebuilding straight men. A show that broke ground for LGBTQ representation in its own right to be sure. The new iteration focuses more on the rebuilding


aspect and as Bobby Berk so eloquently said, “We didn’t want to tear anyone down and were so tired of all the negativity on television and in the news. We wanted to build people up and point out all the great things about them and help with their self-esteem.” Something we could use a great deal more of in this day and age. If you haven’t watched it yet, take a minute and do so. Like I was, you’ll probably be surprised by the poignancy of the show. The emotional topics and conversations they take on go far beyond interior design, grooming, wardrobe and food. The group looks to redefine their “heroes” definition of being at home with themselves. The underlying theme that ended up emerging,


was a focus on films and theatre that highlighted lesbian topics and women. Colette is the semi- autobiographical story of gifted French novelist Sidonie-Gabrielle Colette, a prodigious writer who fought for personal recognition and women’s independence in a male dominated society. The film adroitly illustrates the morays she challenged in her marriage, in the literary salons of turn-of-the-century Paris and in society, her love affairs with women and the resistance she overcame both professionally and personally to achieve success. Lizzie is another of the films to emerge about


a historic female figure. This one however is a well-known tale, or perhaps I should I say a lurid, sensational one. The film takes on the Lizzie Borden murder story and attempts to shed new light on the protagonist. It’s a love story, albeit twisted by the time in which it occurred and thegrizzlymurders. It’s all about the oppressive nature of her relationship to a father, a man who knows little mercy and like so many in his time, uses his power to oppress. I wonder how much it would take for any one of us to strike out and protect something we care about? I’m not advocating murder here, but a love story as a motive for it is certainly an interesting take on the legend. I’ll leave the rest of (Her)stories for you to discover,


take a look inside and enjoy the perspective offered. We’re honored to present it and as always, hope you enjoy the ride.


Joel Martens, Editor in Chief


“Woman must not accept; she must challenge. She must not be awed by that which has been built up around her; she must revere that woman in her which struggles for expression.” — Margaret Sanger


DR. KEITH VRHEL The San Diego LGBTQ community andThe Rage Monthly mourn the loss of


Dr. Keith Vrhel, born December 24, 1948, age 70, passed gently surrounded by his partner Eric and family, on the morning of July the 24. Keith grew up in Oak Park, Illinois, and went on to study at the University of Illinois


becoming a doctor of medicine in 1975. After completion of his residency Keith decided to do two things he loved, medicine and travel. He worked at emergency rooms in such diverse locations such as Phoenix, AZ, to Fairbanks, AK, and his personal favorite of Jackson Hole, WY. After one particular harsh winter in Alaska, Keith traveled south to San Diego where he finally decided to set down roots, a place he came to enjoy and love. The establishment of his practice, however, coincided with a time of fear and


danger for the LGBTQ community. Keith, along with his devoted staff, including his head nurse for much of that period, Julie Hoffman, served the gay community when others shied away or worse, overtly blamed the victims of the disease. From the early ‘80s till the end of his working career in 2007, he strove to heal his patients and protect the community. Keith was a proud member of the following organizations: San Diego County AIDS Task Force; San Diego AIDS Project, Past Chairman of the Board; San Diego County Medical Society; American College of Physicians; American Medical Association;California Medical Society; AIDS Advisory Committee, San Diego County Board of Supervisors; Gay and Lesbian Medical Association; American Academy of HIV Medicine Founding Member. Keith leaves behind his partner of 29 years. In accordance with his wishes a celebration of life is to be held onSaturday, September 15, an event


hosted by his dear and generous friends Doug Snyder and Chris Shaw. If you’d like to attend, please contact Julie Hoffman in order to reserve a seat at 619.379.8624. Instead of flowers please consider a donation to the Trevor Project or the LBGT charity of your choice.


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