INDULGENCES outrageous by jizzona straynger
can’t, you may just find yourself looking for another boyfriend. I’m all for the flirt factor, even if you are in a committed relationship—if kept in check it can help keep the fire alive in some twisted way. I’d be a fibbin’ fool if I were to tell you I don’t enjoy a flirt here or there, it’s what one does with that attention that matters. The key is finding a secure mate who trusts you (that is if you deserve it) and isn’t into pitching fits, unless of course you’re into that kind of thing. Don’t forget the rubber sheets if you are. Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, it’s back to business: I trotted my heels
down south last month for some fun with my San Diego troupe. Our first stop was suggested by our Fruit Fly, Melissa, who always hits up gay bars with straight boys for entertainment—she might need a tiny bit of therapy. Our first stop was Babycakes on 5th Avenue and if you love your cocktails sweet and fruity, this is the place for you. Melissa’s pal Jeremiah was working his specialty, the Raspberry Beret and baby, just three of those bad boys will knock your socks off. Babycakes also hosts Church on Sundays, their spin on Sunday brunch that will make you grab your tambourine and scream hallelujah! After a quick recovery from my San Diego visit, I headed up to have lunch and grab
some cocktails with the most fabulous grocer in Laguna Beach, Terry. We stopped off over at The House of Big Fish and Ice Cold Beer on the PCH. This place has super reason- able prices and killer seafood, along with a hot happy hour. This is the “totally gnarly” spot to head after a fun afternoon of surfing. You can catch their happy hour is Monday through Friday from 2:30 to 6:30p.m. and their Late Night Happy Hour seven nights a week from 9 p.m. until close! My last visit to the O.C. was a stop over at Ibiza Bar and Nightclub in Huntington
ADVENTURES JIZZONA STRAYNGER’S How have ya been Poodles? I trust your summer was just as fun and exciting as mine
has been! Last month we wrapped up the summer season with the fabulous O.C. Pride and with that one behind us, there is much to look forward to this fall! Before we get to all the fabulous events going on in the coming weeks, I received another e-mail that I really wanted to take a hot second to address. Granted, I’m not your momma’s Dear Abby columnist, but I can share my experience and address some of the issues many of you face daily. This particular reader whom we’ll call “Mr. Grindr,” enjoys his online chats for “killing time” and “harmless flirting.” Well, he has a boyfriend who seems to be a tad jealous, who caught wind of this flirtation and started a cyber stalking campaign to uncover the alleged unfaithfulness. First to Mr. Grindr; we all know boys “Grindr” is for one particular purpose and that’s
to get attention from other boys. So I’m not going to sit on my Princess P-Thrown and tell you that you’re wrong for working the Grindr network. What I will say though, is that you must be open and honest with your man! If you demand this type of wireless attention from other men-folk and your boyfriend cannot handle it, you better change one of two things—your behavior or your boyfriend. Since we all know that we can’t change other people, you must move toward his side and find a compromise—if you
Beach. With the recent closing of the only other LGBT friendly bar in Huntington, the community has really come together in support of Ibiza. I’m happy for the entire group of folks involved in making Huntington Beach a go-to-gay-destination. One of my own, well I’ll claim her as my own because I can, Mozie PornWood has put together one of the best group of talents the O.C. has ever seen. For a good time with drag entertainment, followed by hot boys in bootylicious shorts, hit up Ibiza on Friday nights forMozie’s PlayhaüsandBoy Toy Fridays! Here are a few other spicy events going on in L.A./O.C. area this month that are must
attend parties! LGB2Network will host their monthly Sababa Social onWednesday, September 7, at Sababa Restaurant & Lounge in Long Beach. LGB2Network has also joined with the Center Long Beach’s QFilms and will be sponsoring two events for the QFilms Festival onThursday, September 15, featuring films from the QFilm Festival, with special guest musician, the openly gay Matt Zarley. OnFriday, September 16, a screening of Judas Kiss will be featured. An after party will be held at Paradise Piano Bar. For more information on any of these events,
visitcenterlb.org Finally, the hottest pool party series in Southern California will conclude onSunday,
September 18 with LGB2Network’s Play@Maya End of Summer Pool Party, at the newly renovated Hotel Maya in Downtown Long Beach. Guests will enjoy food and drink specials throughout the day, an upbeat mix of the latest hit music, access to the Maya’s Hookah Bar (by So Cal Hookahs), prize giveaways and more. The final Play@Maya Pool Party will take place from 1to 6 p.m. at the Hotel Maya located at 700 Queensway Drive in Downtown Long Beach. Tickets are $15 (includes complimentary parking) and can be purchased in advance
atlgb2network.comor at the door. With that my poodles as Will Rogers once said, “We can’t all be heroes because some-
body has to sit on the curb and clap as they go by.” Now get out there, prove him wrong and be someone’s hero this month! Then send me an e-mail and tell me about it!
XOXO! Jizzona Follow me on Twitter @Jizzona,
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