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Dear Sadie-
Hey girl I’m freaking out this morning because my
current boyfriend told me he wants to meet my ex-
boyfriend because I’m still friends with him.
I love my current boyfriend, and my ex and
I are friends because we work together and still have
a mutual respect for each other, but I don’t want them
to meet. My boyfriend told me it’s the only way he
can feel secure in our relationship.
I admit if he was working with his ex I’d want to
meet her. So do you think it’s a good idea? What if
they become friends and start hanging out?
Sadie Berthiaume
Thanks in advance for the advice,
is half of the
outrageous morning
Robyn
duo of “Scott
Dear Robyn-
& Sadie in the
This is a tough one. I can see your point, but I can also see Dear Sadie- on must have been pretty damaging to your
his point. This seems to be a power struggle between two psyche, I can’t get over the fact that you didn’t
Morning” on Clear
people that may have been hurt in the past. You’re thinking is
You’ll never believe this but last
lock the freaking door! Just the fact that your
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that he needs to trust the fact that there is nothing between
night my mom walked in on me
mother was in the same zip code should have
you and your ex, and further more he should respect your
“manscaping” in the bathroom. This is
made you second guess the whole wide open
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decision not to introduce your old flame to your new flame.
what happens when you forget to lock
cropping idea. That being said I can tell you
Fair enough. But turn the tables and see it from his point of
the bathroom door after living alone for
that as a mother myself you are taking this
her regular column,
view. If he was close to his ex but didn’t want you to meet her,
4 years while at college.
way harder than she is. Keep in mind that
Big Country Sas,
wouldn’t your mind automatically go to a dark place? If you
It was mortifying and it’s been a little
she not only gave birth to you, but raised you
really care for your new guy I should hope you would never
awkward around the house the last
though diapers, and puberty. I know as a guy
Sadie replies to
want him to worry about possible infidelity. My advice to you
12 hours. So I was hoping you and
you have probably blocked the idea of her
would be to meet in the middle. Introduce him to your ex, but
some of the listeners out there could
seeing you in buff from you mind completely,
fans questions
also let him know beforehand that you would prefer they don’t
make me feel better about myself.
but there ain’t nothing you can show her that
become friends, as that would put you in an uncomfortable she hasn’t seen many times before. If she’s
about their issues,
position. If he agrees than you’re good. to go. Just remember Signed, anything like my mother, God save you if so,
troubles, and life
that we all have insecurities. If you want it to work sometimes Mark Manscaper she most likely ran to tell your father and in
you have to bend and accommodate. Keep in mind though, turn they probably had a good laugh at your
with her typical
if he is obsessive about your friendship after the meeting, Dear Manscaper- expense. Sorry friend. All you can do now is
or worries about every male friend you have, you might be laugh it off and let it slide. And for God’s sake
funny slant. facing a much bigger problem. I have to say that although getting walked in next time deadbolt the sucker!
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