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CLAIRE IN THE COUNT Y LOVE I S IN THE AIR


LIVE 24-SEVEN


IS IN THE AIR… LOVE Claire Thayers 32


This year, forget about the cards, the expensive meals out and the marketing pressure and think about you. This Valentine’s Day let us all learn to love ourselves, whether we’re in a relationship or not.


I’m of a certain age; I’ve been there, done that and got the t-shirt… and the video!! Two divorces, a few broken relationships and a heart that’s been broken more times than I can remember!


But there is light at the end of the tunnel. Finally I get it. You cannot love someone else without loving yourself first. It’s taken me a long time to work it out, but I think it’s true. I have many friends that are on dating sites and really believe they are going to find true love, marry and live happily ever after. Sadly, the reality is somewhat different. They receive inappropriate messages, messages that lead nowhere and days and days of not receiving any interest whatsoever… I’ve also experienced the same.


Instead of feeling good, positive and hopeful, there’s a feeling of despair and wondering why no one is interested or why they don’t like you, leading to plenty of soul searching, trying to understand why everyone else seems to be in happy relationships and yet you are not. The conclusion that most people come to is that the problem must lie with ‘me’.


The same thing is happening with social media, with people judging their happiness on the number of likes, shares or comments that they receive.


So, this year, just give yourself permission to love yourself, which trust me is far from selfish. If you can accept yourself for who you are, whatever your size, however you look and you learn to let go of all those insecurities, learn to find inner happiness, I truly think


that your whole aura changes, your body language changes and good things happen!


Many years ago, after the trauma of being left on my own with two young children, I visited a counsellor and it was life changing!


Years of being told that I was ‘fat, unattractive and looked like a man’ had taken its toll; I believed it! I felt unloved and unable to love; I needed help. Through hypnosis I was encouraged to visualise myself on a stage, with a light on me, learning to feel happy with myself. Night after night I replayed the tape. I thought it wasn’t working, as I often fell asleep, but I was assured that my subconscious would take it all in. I have so much to thank that counsellor for, as through hypnosis we managed to re-wire my subconscious!


On my first evening out at a high-profile networking event I felt I owned the room! I hadn’t lost weight, I hadn’t bought a new dress, nothing was different apart from my mindset and it worked. I felt a million dollars and I had so many amazing conversations with great men in the room. I actually felt attractive and I was actually attracting attention!


So this Valentine’s Day, look in the mirror and accept yourself for who you are, value your worth, and love WILL be in the air, with or without someone special, because guess what, you’ve learnt to love yourself because you ARE special.


Happy Valentine’s Day!


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