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How effectively do you communicate with your team?
What is the essence of your job as a manager of people? It could be summed up as follows: “The achievement of successful results consistently through others.”And how you communicate with your team members will have a considerable influence over the results they achieve, writes Philip Cripps, CEO of Thameside International
So take a look at the communication traps shown below and consider how many you fall into regularly:
Communicating negatively – How often do the words “hopefully”, “perhaps” and “maybe” feature in your dialogue? When you use them consistently they place doubt in the mind of your listener about the message you are delivering.
Making statements – When seeking to influence and persuade your team to do what you want them to do, ask questions rather than make statements. Statements such as “I think”, “I consider” and “in my opinion”, used regularly, can demotivate staff. Remember:
“Statements create confrontation. Questions stimulate communication”.
Being dishonest (or at least conservative with the truth – How often do you use the phrases: “To be honest”, “I’d like to be honest”, “If I can be honest”, “To be absolutely honest”.
Each phrase suggests you are not being honest.
Using the “yes, but” expression – When you respond regularly to your team’s ideas, suggestions and views with “yes, but” you will chloroform creative thinking. It is a contradiction in terms. It means “Yes, No you are wrong”. All too often its delivered like a verbal head butt…
Substitute “Yes, and” for “Yes, but” and you will stimulate more positive discussions.
Asking the “why” question – “Why” has often been described as the most aggressive word in the English language. It has an ability to put people on the defensive and often cause offence.
When you ask team members questions use the words “What” and “How” rather than “Why” and pose your questions in a calm and passive manner.
Using ‘verbal stuffers’ – When you are a conscious communicator you avoid filling your conversations with such verbal stuffers as …. “Obviously,” “absolutely,” “basically,” “like,” “you know,”.
Each word, when repeated regularly, irritates your listener and reduces substantially the impact of your message.
Starting sentences with the “no” word – It is amazing how such a small word can have such a devastating effect on discussion. When “no” precedes anything you say you either shut down a conversation or create an argument.
Using the phrase “with the greatest respect” – Each one of your team will think you have no respect for them or their thoughts.
You may still be tempted to think that you communicate effectively with your team and business associates. However, when you study the contents of my latest book, Management in a Minute, I am sure you will change your mind.
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