The BIG FLIP recognizes relationships as People Growing Machines, and enables us to utilize their inherent brilliance. My partner does something that triggers me? Yes! There’s new information for me - expansion and awareness knocking on the door! It can start with “Whoa, I don’t like how this feels.” But the next step is the biggie —instead of wanting my partner to stop and fix whatever just created that feeling in me, I get to look at my response/ feeling and discover the new information that caused it to bubble up! Cool, huh? And yes, sometimes the information that bubbles up is clarity about what you want in a partner and the realization that this particular partner isn’t it. More likely, though, the new information and awareness gives the relationship more juice, and both partners benefit from the expansion.
Want to give this a try? Here are a few steps to set up your relationship for a graceful FLIP: 1.
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Accept that your partner is right, and is working on your behalf whether they are aware of it or not. Sit with that for a few minutes.
Consider that you have partnered with this person to assist him/her in
integrating his/her Being, and enabling access to constant expansion. 3.
Take a look around you- your complete physical world is set up for your
expansion! All your life’s scenarios are opportunities to access greater and grander versions of yourself, and experience them as you access them. You and your partner are supporting each other with it all.
4. Consider something that your partner has done or said that felt
uncomfortable: Expand to the highest frequency you can reach and look for the precious information in the response you had to the trigger. Something that grows you, informs you, energizes you. An A-HA!! It could be that you realize you had more expertise than you knew, or that you’ve wanted to express yourself more clearly and this event gives you that opportunity. It could be that you really wanted a push to try something new or to raise the level of integrity in your relationship with yourself. Maybe you recently learned something new
and wanted an opportunity to try it out experientially for yourself. The possibilities are endless! 5.
Thank your partner and discuss what you found and how the information enriches your relationship. Don’t be shy about asking your partner to create increasing levels of grace and ease as you both begin to utilize the advantages of the BIG FLIP.
Vvwwaa-Lah! Nothing to settle, no blaming. Jump right to the celebration and the new agreement together based on this new information. SOOO much more fun than going round and round discussing who did what to whom! We’re in this together, folks. The design is genius, we just missed the instructions!
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