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Hey there Mr. M Famous, I have a bridesmaid question. I am getting married in
June, and I just graduated from college in December. I have SO MANY girlfriends that I could/should ask to be bridesmaids, but to be quite honest, I just do not want a large bridal party. I would like to just have my sister and one cousin. I want to recognize these friends that I love so much, but I am not sure how?? I thought about making them "Honorary Bridesmaids," but my fiancé says that sounds like the B-Team for bridesmaids. Do you have any thoughtful ideas to help me?
Thanks a lot, Bunches of Bridesmaids
A. This is one of those situations that if handled properly will turn out just fine, and you can arrive at that “safe place" by following these simple steps. First of all you cannot show weakness! It is common knowledge that bridesmaids and their “want to be" counterparts can smell fear! Make your decision and stay cool, calm and collected about it. If they sense that you are unsure of your stance, then be assured they will put pressure on you - next thing you know you will have 77 and a half Maids of Honor. Say things like, “I am only having two close family members as bridesmaids," and "Just be relieved that you are free from a tacky bridesmaid's dress." If you don't make it a big deal, neither will they. If they do, then ignore it. After all it is your wedding!
Secondly, you can acknowledge them in a number of ways. There is always the traditional toast, but I prefer a different approach. Have two sections directly behind the family seating area that is for your “girls" and his “boys". Have them escorted in right after the family and right before you begin your procession. This way they have their chance to say… “I know and love her." I love this idea, as it gives the rest of the attendees the chance to see how many great friends you have. This idea will also cut down on hair and makeup costs not to mention all the hustle and bustle and bobby pins that come along with a lot of bridesmaids. I have been behind the scenes of many weddings and the more heads of hair there are to tease and spray, the more stress it puts on the bride.
Oh and P.S. your fiancé is correct. I would think that only giving someone a title would upset them more than not being
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DearMr. M Famous, Oh, have I got a question for you.....I hope you're ready
for
it....My friends and family all tell me that black is my signature color, and I have often joked that I would even wear a black wedding dress someday, thinking it sounded totally crazy. BUT, now that my big day is approaching, I am actually considering doing it! Is that completely nuts?
Thanks for the help, The Bride Wore...Black?!
A: Well, well, well...I have been waiting for this question. I too love to wear black, and honestly, I would wear another color, but I can't seem to find anything darker. With that being said, I am not sure that a solid black wedding dress is the best choice for multiple reasons. One, you may end up regretting the bold choice in the future. Wedding pictures will appear at gatherings when you least expect it and
wearing such a non-traditional color on the day of your nuptials may open you up to a lifetime of defending your choice. Secondly, unless your uncle's name is “Fester” and your ring bearer is “Thing," such a bold fashion decision could appear to be mocking the day instead of embracing it.
Now, having said that, let me suggest an option that I feel might just accomplish your goal - accessorize and highlight your gown with black. The "Victoria" wedding dress from White House Black Market is accented with a black sash and feathers. Accessorize the rest of the look with some black jewelry to give the color choice a sense of purpose. To really pull the whole, very chic look together, add a pair of black pumps! Ok, I think I just got excited. I will never encourage you to stifle yourself or suppress your own style, but I will also never encourage a bride to do something that she may regret. After all, sometimes you can make a very pointed statement without screaming at the whole room.
Be M Famous, Mr M Famous
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